NOT that much of a confession : just an eye openner...

If a man wants you, nothing can keep
him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can
make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his
behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to
save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a
relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before
you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because
the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't 'be
friends'. A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you
along, then he probably is
Don't stay because you think 'it will
get better'
You'll be mad at yourself a year later
for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a
relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of
children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them
pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends
separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats
you. If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know
everything.* He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.*
Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
Even if he has more education or in a
better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.

Never
borrow someone else's man.
A man will only treat you the
way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the
bending...
Compromise is two way street.

You need
time to heal between relationships...
There is
nothing cute about baggage....
Deal
with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You
should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
A relationship consists of two WHOLE
individuals...
Look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he
doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a
man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he
takes it for granted

Never move into his mother's
house. Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a
man who doesn't give you everything that you need.*

Keep him in your radar
but get to know others.
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that
are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil

You
should know that:
You're
the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man mistreats you,
he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to you in the 1st place,
just know that he's not the only one.

They're
all watching you, so you have a lot of choices.
Make the
right one.
Ladies take care of your own hearts....

"The
world is moved along,not only by the mighty shoves of its heroes,but also by
the aggregate of the tiny pushes of each honest worker"