pals i need your matured advice on this matter, Am out the country for over three years now and i have bf in Nigeria which i dated for a year before i left, for this 3 years we're not together, we chat and use webcam both in his room and at work too,,we plan to get married once i return back to Nigeria anytime from now and the worst part of it now is that a girl called saying leave my husband alone look for yours with private a number, so then i did not know who was calling and disturbing my peace. later the girl called again and said stop calling my husband (daddy) when i heard that name i now recurred the name i used to call him whenever i call him on phone, so i told him about the new development he said he doesn't know anything about it.... so later i text him that we need to chat tonight after church immediately the same girl called again saying i warn you stop calling my husband. i called him again to tell him the same girl called again warning why i send text to her husband and she won't allow me chat with him tonight.. he denied it saying don't listen
to any girl maybe the person is talking out of frustration... i ask him again you promise any girl marriage?( he said no) then later that night we chat on skype which we use webcam i now ask him again if he have any serious date there he said No) he later beg i would forget it that men sex urge is not the same with women... so after our chattin i forgive him and forget everything...

I now called him a day after our chattin lately Nigerian time we spoke well on phone then the fellowing morning before i wake up i saw miss calls and text mesg from him, when i ask him if he called and send any mesg he said No. not knowing the girl use his phone to call and mesg me, and wat the girl wrote ( Tony hav a son to take care of, plz leave him alone) i just get tired about everythin and call him to explain why the girl is still there with him if really they're married let me know before i return back because i don't want to get deceived.. he just acted as if he didn't knw who used his phone to text me... so i now insult him he cut the phone on me i called back again, he didn't pick, i sent him mesg he didn't reply back.. am so confuse now and the girl called trying to be my friend that she will tell me everything and she the prove that she don't want me to get decieved..plsss pals i need a very serious advice from you guys..thank you and God bless you all..