Am a guy of 30yrs deeply in love with a gal of 22yrs. But d problem is that i dnt knw if she really luvs me or not.
We go out together,drives around town,help each other both financially and motivatiional but we never had even a kiss not 2 talk of s**x wch does not bother me. B/4 we met,she had a breakup with d ex whom she told me she loved dearly nd me 2 had a breakup with my ex. The 1st few dates were like romeo nd juliet nd she wants me which i knw 4rm experience but because i luv her deeply nd has even told her i wnt 2 marry her,i could not but respect her for who she is coz she's like an angel nd God sent 2 me.
After few months,i began noticing some changes 4rm her like she's becoming tired of my messages nd pinging. Eachtime i wnt us 2 have a date,she will feel reluctant unlike b/4 and she started inviting her female fwend on our date.
Then the last fin dat happened was when she told me she was around d nxt street to my street wch in d end,i did not go 2 pick her and she left. This happened coz i have never wantd 2 bring her 2 my house coz of d past relationship i had wit my ex wch everybody in d neighbour-hood knws.
It was after this incident,we began having arguments upon arguments nd nothing i says seems right 2 her. Then one day,she called me on a date nd when we met,she said she wants 2 be alone nd not ready 4 marriage or any relationship. This made me mad nd hurtful whch i could nt hide 4rm her. Then one day,i sent her a message expressing my hurt 2 her nd dat coz of that,i cannot luv any gal again.
To cut d story short,all this happened last year nd when i asked her out last wk,she asked me,my dear,do u wnt 2 go through wht u went through last year but in d end,i told her i missed her nd would like 2 talk many things wch she accepted nd fixed a date.
Now,am afraid if 2 continue fighting 4 dis luv or 2 quit? Ur candid advice pals.