This is my story, when i was younger, i dated a guy let call...
This is my story, when i was younger, i dated a guy let call him peter for a while and he asked me to marry him and i said yes inwhich he gave mea ring, this was almost 8 years ago. He left the country but we still stayed in contact for a while then lost contact. I also later left the country to the same country he left to. I got into a different relationship with a guy let call him paul i loved so much. One day, he came to my school and was pleading that he wanted me back and was on his knees, but i refused. we never spoke again but he kept bugging me, sending me mssgs on ***** and calling me. After dating paul for some years, we broke up. every year peter and i will chat once or twice and the conversion is always abt hw he wants me back, but i never gave in. BTW he was in manitoba while i was in Toronto. when i got to university, i met a new guy let call him john. John and i started dating and eventually,i got pregnant and john's family asked me to get an abortion. when i refused they started hating on me. They told john to leave me and all. They fraustrated us and all. They told jhn that if hedecide to marry me, they would not bless the marriage. Withall this, my relationship with john started having problems. Another thing is that John is too childish. we dont even do things together, we dont go out, we jst sit at home all the time which makes me bored. We fight all the time and exchange words. I can say the last time i was happy was before his family started all their bullshit. Most times i tell myself that the reason im still here is cos of my child. Recently peter andI started chatting again. This time he went back home after school and is working at his parents company while i remained here in canada. He is still saying that he wants to marry me andhe still loves me and wants me bk. I would be 25 this year and my child would be 3this yr and still nothing. john's family especially his mum does not contact him or want to have anything to do with him as long as he is still with me and our child.The problem right now is that im very confussed, i dont know what to do. Even if john is ready to marry me tomorrow, wat abt his family? wat abt our quarrels cos of his behaviors. Peter i there bugging me, here i'm in an un happy relationship. Pls give me an advice. Thanks in advance.

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