God bless you as you RD it.

At the heart of it, a man wants to touch the truth -- that you love him -- that he's "the one" for you. He wants to feel that he inspires happiness in you and that you accept, trust, and appreciate him. At his depth a man needs to know that he makes a positive difference in your life, otherwise he doesn’t even want to live.

A man’s deepest fear is that he is not good enough. If he looks in your eyes and sees love, he feels loved, and in that innocence, he loves you in return. He loves you for the feeling of energy which your appreciation and love evoke in him.

For a woman to maintain this state is next to impossible! Especially given the ways they disappoint us!2 flowers

But this is the consciousness of a graceful woman. Yogi Bhajan says that when a woman fills herself with a forgiving, loving consciousness, everything on the earth will come to her, because her grace as a woman is so radiant.

Many men had mothers who didn’t come through for them. For example, many Mothers had a difficult time letting go of their sons. The boys have to pull away in order to define themselves. Even when grown, men seem to still need to withdraw to find solutions and identity. Fortunately, unlike his mother, you can let him go. You’ll be very surprised that when he comes back he’ll be feeling a lot of love and appreciation for you. If you can greet that love with affection, life will be very enjoyable. But most women are angry that he withdrew and so the fight continues. By prince MSA