Gud day all.
I greatly need a mature and simple advise here. whatever anyone says here will go a long way in my heart. i met this guy,when i was working.due to lack of insufficient salary. so i decided to be selling call cards. and he used to buy cards from me, he even went as far taking me to his area, were i can be selling for his guys after work close. so that was how, we became friends. then it came to a time, i was looking for a flat to rent. he offend to help me find a place around his. so after words, we actually became very good friends, i mean just friends.

I actually do not have the plan or idea of me dating him. then i feel he was not just my kind of guy. so later i get to introduce him to other of my guy who stays in Africa. that same guy has been willing to do business with me. but just becoz i was a lady, all the guys here want to get down with me. so when i met this very guy, i felt now, that i've someone i can trust and called my brother.. i introduce him to that guy in Africa. so they started the biznes becoz i asure them, he will not betray them. after so many months by.. the biznes was not easy and forth coming like we all planed it. we started getting along with eachother. and this guy, was coming into me. letting me to no, he loves me. he want to marry me. he said, the 1st day, he saw me. that he told his friend that am d kind of lady he will love to marry. even b4, he start telling me his feelings.. i took him as my dear friend. even by telling him my experience with my ex. so many things in my life. i did know he was just there feeling for me. so i let him know i can't date him. that i only want us to do just biznes, and be gud friends. he said so many things, that he can't do this biznes with me without us dating. then i told him, this was not what we both earlier agreed . so many things start taking place which i can't state all here. before i knew it, he started calling my families back home. telling them he want to marry me. he even went as far, taking my name to his family to check on me. when he find out, all the gud things they told him, abt me. he just fall inlove more. i felt he was going too far. and he too was aware of the pressure my family was brinking on me. just for me to settle down. he his 27, and am 29yrs. then i too decided to take his name to my family to check on him. but the newz i got from home, was not pleasing to me at all. the 3 pstors my mother took his name to. only 1 said he his willing to marry me,. but in future he will not give me peace.

Wen i told him, wad i hard.. he tried to convince me.i started to see the real him. i find out he his so controlling, so hot tempered, and very aggressive. he hardly allows smone to advice him. even my sister in Europ called me and worn me of the guy. that his pstor also said he his not a gud person. am also trying to be patient to watch him, but the more i do, the more i find out the things he does that are not pleasing to me. i also have my bad side. he always begs me each time we had a fight. but he over did it, the day i went out to see my old friend. just a friend...when i came back home. he started yelling at me. just becoz we stayed together now. b4 i knew it. we started fighting, to my surprise.. this same guy beats me like, i was his enemy, he told me he will kill me, he will do to me, what my ex did do to me. he pouch me, till my face and my lips were covered with blood. ever since this happend he tried to regain my trust back to him. but i must be very fair here. the feelings i got for him has disappeared. And now, the bizness i called him to join. the outcome of it, has turn bad. evrybdy is complaing of him, they all said, he his too proud, and not respectful. my big sister said the same thing, the day, he talk with sister on the fon. now am truly confused, he got northing much with him, and still am suffering with him. although we plans on how, we going to live our lives, he does not allow me to g