am based in lagos but was leaving with my aunt 2yrs ago in one of the northern state during my NYSC days. There in the north i met a friend and really trusted him. His village his just a stone throw away to mine and my grandmum is also from his village so i see him more as a brother in the north. My friend, my brother betrayed my trust, how? It was a very cold period in the north and i was almost freezing when he gave me his coat to wear at the orientation camp,before i forget i met him at the camp he was among the official, he was so nice all through my stay, he even advise and talk to me as a sister. Eventually he forgot the coat with me and we were to leave camp the next day. when i got to my aunt house he called me i told him where i was and he said is very close to his place which i confirmd from my cousin. I decided to return his coat for him and at least thank him for all his assitance at the orientation camp little did i know he had something else in mind. In summary when i got there he forced me into sleeping with him, all my pleas and everything to him fell into deaf ears, i screamed but nobody even interruptd cos the area where he resides his very quiet and the walls around the building is very high, if u know how northerners build their fence u ll understand what am saying. At the end he had his way with me more than twice even though i was weak cos of my struggle with him. I really regreted knowing him or going to see him, i cry every night when i think about it, i couldnt tell any one not even my aunty or my suppose boyfriend cos i dont want them to see me as an object of mockery.

After that occurence since 2yrs ago i excommunicated him and never picks his calls, he came looking for me number of times at home but i refuse to see him. because of his incessant begging for forgiveness i forgave him. but the issue now is that he will not let me rest am tired of taking his calls, he can call me until my battery his flat.After my NYSC i started living with my aunt but i had to relocate because of him. I asked him what he wantd and he said "his life as never been same since he had sex with me because he has never seen someone so sweet like me and he cant just stop thinking about me or let go".

Finally he wants me by all means and that he wants a serious relationship with me, he wouldn't mind if i want him to even see my parents to be sure he would disturb me with calls during the day and at night. But i kept on thinking about the kind of animalistic behaviour he displayd that particular day, is been a while now but the more he calls the more i remember how he rough handles me. i really dont know why he wants me. Is it another plan to rape me again? Is granting some one you see as a rapist request the best for me? right now he is sweet talking my brain and am getting confused? does he deserve anything from me again? Has he not been doing same thing to other girls? Pals have been trying to figure out all this puzzle but am not getting it straight. Pls i need your sincere comment/advise on these issue. Thanks