THE TEENAGE YEARS: For the 17 yrs old girl (now at no.9) who confess to masturbating with her dad picture posted earlier. Please read this, it might help you overcome it.

What the Electra complex refers to is a female “during the phallic stage” realizing she doesn't have a penis but her father does. She then seeks to have intercourse with him to have some sort of attachment with her dad.

You are already aware of the reason for your attraction to your father. . I'm referring to when you asked, am I cursed? Maybe you do not have a good relationship with your dad, it cause you to be longing for a father-daughter relationship you’ve never had?" it happen a lot to female teenager around your age .Because your may have high standard and you are not measuring up to his high standard, you feel attracted to him to please him for him to accept you, this is causing to think sexually about, but in your mind you know it very wrong what you are doing ,

I would say that is exactly what it is. Modern day psychologists, therapists, and psychiatrists have come to the conclusion that the Electra complex is actually a girl/woman's desire for love and acceptance by her father. It is most commonly found in situations such as yours where you feel like you don't measure up to his standards/expectation s. You probably have a low self-esteem as well (as your type of behavior usually accompanies this syndrome you are engaging in).

I do not know to what lengths your attraction to your father reaches but, for the sake of covering all the bases, I would say if you are actually sexually aroused by him or fantasize that he is having intercourse with you (during masturbation or just daydreaming) then I would say you don't fit the normal profile of a woman needing acceptance from dad.

Most women with the Electra complex seek out relationships with other men who resemble their father and these are usually abusive relationships on some level (whether emotional abuse, physical or sexual abuse, or verbal abuse).

I hope this helps you to see where you are. If either depiction I've described fits your situation then you should definitely seek out a good therapist to work through your core/underlying issues so you can bring about resolution and start entering into positive, healthy relationships with other men rather than your dad for sex. A relationship where you are valued on every level and where there is no hurtful behavior being acted out.