Na this man has been disturbing me dat he is inlove wit me,bt bcus i was dateing a 1 guy i said him no and left.sometimes i think i like him more than my bf becus he tak to me so gentle wit respect,i had a dream about him 3times after he left but since im with my bf i never dream of him but im inlove wit him.last 2months my bf insulted my mum when i had qurrel wit him and i deciede to leave him and move on my life,after 6days i seprated wit my bf the other guy started caling my phone and i answer him,he ask me if i can acept his reuest no i said him ok ,he invited me to his home and i went,he was happy to recieve me and i ate everything i like but he did not tourch me or romance me and i feel ok because he is a nice guy,i have been to his home 6times but still notting hapen,i tried to near him and hug him but still he did not say a word,as i was going back home he ask me to met him 9am the next morning,i ask him why he said he want to take me outing and i was happy,i came to his home 9am as he told me,and he start his car and drove me to hospital,i ask him why re we here he said he loves me so much and he want to do hiv test and blood group with me so that he will think and plan the next step,i was shorcked because i never ready to do hiv test now and he did not tel me first he just drove me to hospital,i said him no that i can,t do any test wit him now unless i told my mum first,he said that he is afraid to sex wit me since i have been visiting him,he said condom is not save and he don enjoy useing condom to sex a girl he love thats why he want to do this test wit me,he told me lets do it and keep it secret 4 our family until when he is ready then we can show it to them,i said him no that i don,t hide secret 4 my mum that i must tel my mum this night and next time we can go 4 hive test and blood gp,he was angry and drove me back to his home and i left his home and go.he is a nice guy but iam only afraid of this test hiv 4 now,because some doctors do make a mistake and write bad result,now im caling him and he never pick my cal or cal me back,and my first bf too never cal me back,im confused abt my life now.pal i want advice.am i not right 4 not acept him to do hiv test with him?