onymous plz!sorry cos ma post may b a bit
long..im a lady of 20,i have been going out wit my
bf who is 26 for the past 6yrs nd throughout diz
years ve bn faithful wit him...we luv eachoda buh d
problem nw is hez nt really crioz wit his life...at
26,he has bn workn 4 da past 1yr nw buh he doesnt ve savings nd i dnt knw wat he uses his
money for cos i dnt ask 4 money 4rm him nd he
only gives me small meagre of money once in a
while..im a fultime studnt,wil b in 300l in d nxt
2mnths,ve gt nids nd im damn broke i only survive
wit d token my mom usd to give me 4 tfare/feedn 2 skul and my guy here cnt help cos hez alwayz
neva having moni...he finishd his ND in 2009 buh is
yet to collect his result due to some issues....he
recently tld me he had gained admissn in2 a
university whn he didnt tel me b4 hand hez
processn to go to uni...he is a rapper who luv entertainment nd can do anythn 4 it,hez currently
in2 promotn music 4 young upcomn artist wit little
or no moni dat he has nd he has d ambitn/dreams
of makn it big in dis biz..my prob nw is diz (1) hez
26 nw nd hez goin 2 study upto 5yrs to get a
degree in d uni witout achievn anyuthn 4 himslf nw while i wld be in 300l whn he wil b in 100..i jst
dnt knw hw long he wil take b4 he wil at least get
sumthn 4 himslf nd plan to settle down, though he
tld me it wldnt take more than 4yrs 4rm nw buh i
dnt see of it 4rm waz on ground nw (2)im thnkn
of double datn i.e dating anoda guy since ma bf cannot solve my financial needs,buh im scare 2 do
dix cos i may nt knw hw to play d game witout
my bf knowing,and moreova of d new guy askn
me 4 sex..pls wat do u think i shld do,i love my bf,
he luvs me too..nd i dnt want to leave him