Hello Pals, am d girl who her bf wrote about stating that he had ex girl who gave birth to a baby boy nd d baby was 4yrs old and that he recently lost the child and dat i his present gf who he loves so much and wants to marry sent him a text breaking things up wth him because of his past..... Well dis my own story
I met him a year ago nd we startd dating, he told me about the fact dat he had a baby and dat his parents like his baby mama nd dat they actually wnt him to marry her but he doesnt wnt to marry her cos he doesnt luv her like dat and that he had been hurt in the past and how he had not been into any serious relationship for awhile dat he doesnt trust women and so on so i decided to date him hopin to change his percpective about women,so along d line i found out that he infact had other serious relationships that i just happned to beh one amongs many but i still decided to stay wth him cos i luvd him i put up wth all his cheating untill a few weeks ago when i saw a msg on his accnt about a girl wanting to cm visit him frm a nearby country and that she was going to stay for a week and they talkd about all kinds of intimate stuffs and he was volunteering to buy her ticket, i wanted to ask him but dat same week his 4yrs old child died due to heart issues ( God rest his soul), he was devastated nd i was too cos i knew wat it felt like loosin someone so young so i decided to forgt wat i had seen and console him d best way i could cos his pain was my pain, only for him to tell me a day after his son's death that he was moving out of his apartment that a friend of his was expecting a girl nd dat they wanted to use his apartment, i laughed when he said dat cos i knew d girl was coming as planned nd i began to wonder wat kind of a man can lose his son tday nd invite a girl d nxt day, i still pretended that i didnt knw wat was happening hopin to spare him more grief o only for him to tell me a few days to d girls arrival that i shld pls cm help him clean his house nd my dears it was at dat point that i couldnt bear it any longer nd choose to forget his pain nd voice out mine cos i felt if d father of d late baby is nt feelin pity for himself y should i? I screamed at him dat he must be out of his mind dat he wantd me to cm clean his house nd make him food dat he ll eat with his gf, trust men na my bobo denied everything nd even pretended nt to knw wat i was talkin of nd dat was when i told him it was ova nd i said dat hopin dat he ll be scared of loosing me and cancel d girls ticket or at least postpone d trip ( since he claimed he lovd me) but to my utmost surprise d girl arrived as plannd and as am writting dis now she is currently at his place... He came to c me tday saying the are nt being intimate that i shld forgive him dat he nids something frm her nd dat he doesnt want to lose me and so on.. So pals i nid to know if i did wrng in breaking things up with him and if i should accept his apology and go back? to him forgivin him for his wrngs?