Confession on what women need to know by SOCIABLE
It all depends because most men do sometimes really stupid things, and you have every right to feel what you’re feeling. The problem is if you let your emotions control your actions with men, it can severely impact his level of attraction for you.Being serious and sharing a deeper connection has it’s place (something I go deep into in my free relationship advice eLetter), but when a man does hurtful things like being unaffectionate, distant or not calling back, most women’s reaction is to become “serious” over the bad things they believe to be happening and lose that light-hearted fun they were originally bringing to the table that draw men in in the first place.Men absolutely crave a woman who is light-hearted and doesn’t take things too seriously… ESPECIALLY when things get rough.Humor is like a BILLBOARD mounted to a woman’s forehead that says “I’m the one!” Men feel this on a subconscious gut level.If you’re becoming overly serious, worried, self-conscious, your man is very likely to lose attraction and pull away.If you lead with a sense of humor most of the time, it’s an amazing find for a man. Men not just want this but NEED it.
What Men Find Irresistible Secret #2: Lead With Your “Youthfulness”
Most women believe that attraction has to do mostly with their body… weight, breast size, bone structure etc. And while this plays a part, it couldn’t be further from the truth. A man desires youthfulness in a woman he would consider spending all of his time with. Youthfulness means a state of being innocent and childlike, and this is something that stimulate men on a subconscious level to crave.
Youth is an attitude.Most women are very burned out inside from the obligations of the world, and this has a very strong effect on how men will perceive you.It may be difficult for you to “get” this because women in our society are virtually “brainwashed” to believe if their bodies are not young or pretty, they don’t stand a chance at captivating a man.NOT TRUE… and I have many, many cases to back this up. I’ve noticed that attraction has MOSTLY to do with your internal “energy”.Men sense when a woman is fresh and has kept herself separate from the negativity of other’s opinions and when a woman has allowed herself to be burned out, burdened with obligations and has lost touch with the little girl within.A child playing on the playground hasn’t been burdened by the world’s “adulthood” and “responsibilities� � yet.All she cares about is PLAYING… in the sand, swinging on the swings and having fun. She is fresh, she doesn’t hold onto the past and isn’t worried about the future.It’s one thing be responsible, and another thing to allow it to define who you are.I’m always amazed when I see 18-year-old girls who feel 40, and then when I see 40-year-old women who feel 18.It’s just a matter of learning what type of energy men are emotionally attracted to in a woman.
What Men Find Irresistible Secret #3: Attract With Body Language
Behavioral psychologists say that body language makes up for 55% of all communication in relationships… vocal tonality comes in second with 38%.And the actual words we use to talk? A whopping 7%.Pay close attention… words are only 7% of ALL communication.That means that 93% of ALL communication and signals that we give and receive are based on body language and vocal tonality alone.Most women ask me “what do I say to him to make him want me?”. But if you focus on only that 7% you’re missing 93% of the puzzle!I don’t have time right now to get too deep into this, but here’s the “magic formula” for body language.Hips loose and tilted a bit forward, arch in the lower back allowing weight to release off the upper-back, shoulders and upper back relaxed back, chest present, chin up.A smile tells a man on a gut level that you’re receptive and no smile says you’re “untouchable”.Whe n you learn how to have powerful body language, it’s as close to “magic” as it
