This confession really goes to the married
men but married women and other
groups of persons who have something
to say on this can also contribute. I hear a
lot of 'oh, dont be too cheap. Don't throw
urself at him. Let him work n not walk his
way into ur heart ....etc'
i mean is dat how u guys got d ladies that
u have married? By actually working hard
to get her. I used to think it pays to just be
urself and be honest. Like if i meet a guy i
like, i wouldnt wanna put him through all
dat cos fact is i like him already so am
gonna be friendly and accomodating. But i
think what some of us may not be getting
is, where do u cross d line? By trying not
to act cheap u may actually be crossing
over to actually being too uptight and
playing 'too' hard to get.
Plz, ladies enligthen us more as to what
and what ACTIONS u consider as being
cheap with regards to ladies an those that
will also mean a lady is just too much
trouble/uptight