hello everyone please i have a friend that needs your advice,my friend is 22yrs old but doesn't have any certificate to back his education up to now but he really wants to have something doing but whenever he makes conclusion on something either something bad will happen or any kind of little distractions because,just last year he informed me that a girl was pregnant for him but he doesn't want the girl to abort so the girl gave birth around may last yr and he stopped seeing the girl that gave birth for him due to the fact that he wants her to be focused on her studies and not him hence all he does is to send money for feeding the baby though that isn't the best decision but he thinks that will help the young girl to focus on her studies ,as time goes on this very guy found someone else and he was just his normal self because he likes to spend for girls but never disclose that he already got a kid to the new girl so there was this time my friend got a visa and he thought he should let the new girl know about it but to his surprise the new girl doesn't want him to travel so he tricked my friend that she has already agreed that he should travel abroad,i was very happy for my friend because he's been on his own since our secondary school time so its another step up for him but to surprise on sunday afternoon the new girl called my friend and told him that she's pregnant and she's not ready to abort or do any nasty things but my friend already got a kid and his early age ,but i just think its another distraction or i can call it a delay because this very girl doesn't want my friend to travel out of the country though my friend is out of the country now and the new lady gave birth to girl but my friend won't stopped talking about this because is not what he wanted for himself but things keeps coming up at the age of 23 he got 2 kids from 2 different girls ,please good advise is needed and its my first time of posting on here so am so sorry if i didn't really compose this right,thanks.