My ex left me after I went through hell for his sake. My parents disowned me but I stood strongly by him.
He was poor and we slept on the mat in an empty room.
To feed was even an issue. No job nor tangible thing doing but I stood by him and loved him as I would myself. I worked and schooled to help out.
When He got a nice job, and demanded I get pregnant before marriage, I refused so he left me for another lady.
Threw my things out, I slept my his door till morning, cried and begged but he turned deaf ears.

I didn't fight or quarrel. I walked away silently.
I was heart broken, I couldn't understand what I did wrong.
Then I saw him at a mall with his new lady and he was pointing at me, laughing and making mockery of me, I ignored them.

Then he walked up to me and said hi and I responded politely,
He then said," so you are still single, I told you no man will want you"! I could still hear his wife laughing me to scorn. So I asked him if that was his wife and he confirmed it with praises, thanking God he didn't end up with bad luck like me.

So I said to him, that as him and his wife have made mockery of me in public even when I tried to respect them, that the cry of a child will not be heard in his home and whatever is a foundation in his life will be destroyed. He will be a masquerade in the sight of people and as he has mocked me today so shall people mock him. I walked away in tears.

This is 7years, I met him in Abuja all tattered and unhappy. He has a small shop by the roadside.
He called out to me, I didn't recognise him at first ,but the way I saw him left me bothered. He said his wife left him after everything went down and they couldn't have babies. He asked me to forgive him and revert the curse, but am still hurt. Moreover, I didnt know that whatever I pronounced on him that day will come to pass because I have since moved on and have my own family, so I never gave a thought to it.

The way I saw him makes my heart bleed but forgiving him, I don't know...
Pls what do you advice?