l am a gurl of 29yrs i will b 30 in couple of weeks,i live in the states.pls just b patient n read my story n give me yur gud advices..Am sorry to say this but thats true i have the worst,greedy and ungrateful parents in this world...My weddin was supposed to be on Dec 2010 but it was cancelled by my own father on nov 2010 due to his selfish desires..i wld hav been married for long but my parents always dnt like the idea of me getting married by now..their problem is who will b helping them,they dnt want me to bring any guy to the us instead i shld bring them, but they are very very comfortable in nigeria..this have been happening for abt 3yrs now.Now this guy am abt gettin married to,they my parents introduced this guy to me ,he dosents stay in Nigeria but he stays in one of the european countries.He is from my place..We only talk on the phone we exchanged pictures and chat all the tyme..without seeing this guy face to face we fixed our weddin on Dec 2010. y?because my parents encouraged me that he is a nice guy n he came from a gud family background..Funny huh..The weddin was cancelled becos of one expensive thingy dat my dad wanted but we insisted that we will not do that renting a canopy worth almost a million naira for just the trad weddin...no..me n my husband we refused to do that..Where will dat money come from?its crazy yu knw!Becos of all this Our weddin was moved from Dec to Easter 2011..So becos our weddin was cancelled i decided to visit him during dec period cos my vacation was still on!i travelled n visited him he was the best man i have ever seen in this world..we loved each other we had the same complexion we were so much inlove with each other we travelled to other countries n visited his family,,my dear it was fun!So we did our court weddin in Jan 2011 before i came back to the states.Our weddin which was scheduled this Easter 2011 have also been cancelled again by my father .y?becos i went to visit and see my purposed husband can yu imagine that?My husbands family r the best family i have ever seen they loved me so much that they cant wait 4 us to get married.The best part of it is i just found out that am pregnant for my hubby..am glad!and also the funniest part of it is dat my parents called me to forget about getting married to my hubby that their is this other man a doctor in the states tellin them dat he wants to marry me..that its better i marry a doctor that will help them..this people dnt even think about my happiness,they r causing me problems cos sometimes i doubt if they r actually my parents.my husbands families r not happy abt all this cancellations of weddings,and we prepared so much for this weddin buying this,sewing clothes everything was ready.My dear pals now if yu r in my shoes what will yu do.Sld i tell my parents dat am already preg for this guy or shld we just keep quiet..just give me yur words n advice cos am really really mad at my parents..pls am sorry for the long story but i had to write it down..pls matured minds only..thanks for reading and may God bless yu all.