I'm sooo confused and dont know what to do! Here's the story in short...pls tell me what you think honestly! (no insults please!)

I met this guy at my uni called G. Apparently he really liked me bt i felt absolutely nothing for him. When he asked me out on two consercutive occasions, i declined and requested that we only be friends and i thought he was a really nice person..(so wrong).

He moves around with two other guys, M and OY. When i frst met M, i didnt really like him but hey, i thought to myself, who am i to judge, so to cut the long story short, we became friends. Turns out we were alot alike, but he had this kinda arrogant swave that i detasted!

On a particular day, i was kinda bored doing my course work so i called him up (M) for a walk, we talked and got to know each other better..no girlfriend, fiancee or wife waiting for him back in nigeria (we'r in the uk)...e.t.c... He even told me about he's long term girl whom he just broke up with during easter holiday when he went back home!

Nyways, later that night i went to his to chill for a bit since he kinda distracted me but just before i did, G txtd me, asking where i was going, when i told him, he just said good luck!..(i was abit suspecious that there was some kinda BET or plan or something btween them, but i just shruged it off!). Nothing happened that night (altho he was tryna be funny cos i had no idea how he unhooked my bra...i actually found that amazing! cos 1 minute it was on and the it was gone!!!)

The next day, i slept with him (i know!, i shouldnt have! but it gets worse!)...without a condom. I was so upset with myself in the morning that after getting the morning after pill, i promised myself it wouldnt happen again! (He might have an STD, STI, or even AIDS!!!!). But.... it happened again the next day (twice actually), and the day after (twice as well!!!)...

I mean, some of u might think im sooooo stupid (and i sooooo agree with u!!) but i was really attracted to this idiot!. To cut the long story short, two days after i found out he was going out with this other girl for 3 months now! (so i was actually the other woman!)...i called him, insulted and swore at him, and broke it off in her presence! i even spoke to the girl (idiot stick figure with no brains!!...lol) and she said they had been having sex without a condom as well!..THAT FREAKED ME OUT!

I went to get tested for chlymedia and gonorrhea and other STI's soo im still awaiting the clinic to call me back for my results...unfortunate ly, cant get tested for HIV cos it's still too early and i have to wait three months b4 i even can (TORTURE!!!).

A couple of days ago, the other girl walked up to me and siad she didnt like what i did, that i lied that me and G had sex!!!!...can you believe the dimwhit!!!!!!....so now they are back together. I mean, i've never been tested for anything in my life cos i always used condoms and i know this was one mistake too many (toooo risky!) but i hope to God that im fine...

The thing is, this buffalo hasent even called or texted to say he's sorry or anything at all and that bothers me....There can only be 2 resaons :

1] He's spreading the HIV virus!?!

2] It was a set-up with his other friend that liked me to see who could get me into bed!?!

I mean, do i not even deserve an apology?