Dear Confession, <br /> <br /> I have been dating this guy ...

Dear Confession,

I have been dating this guy for a while it is hard for me to trust a man period. Most recently he gave me the keys to his house and asked for mine. I responded with a big fat "NO." The reason why I said "No" is because I have been raised to never live with a man unless you are married. So why does he need the keys to my house. Also, I was taught to never shack up with a man so I refuse to bring items to his house. At the end of the day I gave him back the keys to his house. I have always been responsible and to some extent more than my mother she had some real bad issues, and I ended up having to be a mother instead of a daughter now I have a hard time trusting people with my things keys, money, love and trust. So I always feel like someone is going to take something from me, so I am over protective due to pass lesson. I really love this guy and I don't want to run him away, but trust is a hard thing to gave when you are not sure if that human being deserve your trust. I just don't know how to let my guard down.

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