PLEASE HELP AM A CONFUSED YOUNG MAN OF IGBO ORIGIN IN MA 20s... Im in some sort of entanglement. I met a beautiful lady last year January in lagos, we resumed course n she happen to be my classmate n sit mate, We fell in love n gradually we grew in love to the amazement of pple. dis lady i know loves me dt she almost gave her virginity but i vehemently decline cos i knew it wasnt right, we were like brothers n sisters, i mean best of friends. Got so much in love with her n she too. Soon her pple n my pple get to know n they were all cool with us. We planned to get married in November 2016. Along d line i flopped i had some nasty conversation with my previous girl whom i dated for 4 yrs we broke up cos of distance n muslim christian compatibility in nutshell her dad wud neva allow her to marry an igbo boy. When i visited my girl in Kogi after our course she managed to go thru my fon n came accross my whatsapp convo with ma ex, she got mad, utterly confused n devastated she was losing it n tears came out uncontrollable. She hated me n bcos d chat was too explicit she cudnt actually blv i cud do such. Threw me out n ordered i leave her rented appartment at Lokoja just dt same day at about 10pm. I was dumbfounded n confused but pleaded with her. Had to involve my mum to help beg her she refused. But still in dt area i lodged in a guest inn for 4 days to get to the root of it. She pretended dt she had forgiven me on condition dt i be posted to her new working place Ph. I agreed. On going bck to lagos i got posted to BY. I didnt go to PH. She got mad n realised maybe i wasnt serious from the onset. I remembered calling her to beg her to come back she said i want to use her for experiment. Buh dis lady is not worth that she can compete with d best i mean d best. Y wud i. I was a fool so i said to my self. Went to PH once to see my aunt, told her i wanna come visit her she said she doesnt want me to see me. Via out my 7mnts In BY i didnt see her but communication accelerated slwly. She cud call few times to tease me dt ive forgotten her n jokIngly say she missed me. She cud call my mum atimes to ask how she doing i did same to all her family members. Buh dt was not her real self so i tot. If not y neglect? N seldom treat me with scorn N snub and alla dt I partially concluded she dont n wont love me again.Tot she has lost interest in the future we shared but (I was wrong). I was emotionally down for moths. Buh i no fit wait, i was missing Love N dont want to be affected emotionally, Dec Last year i decided i wont be turned a puppet cos of love I got another girl who suffered snub n neglect from her bf too. Did a comptibiLity test n we were good to go.Just dt we went too far in less than 3 months. We lived like real lovers n treated each other with respect. to be frank shes ma contigency Now. I was good to her n she confessed she cud die for me well dts not true i know maybe maybe not. while ravishing at dis ad hoc relationship with dis Akwa Ibom girl. I played cool n never cheated she gave me all n we were good...She was damn real. Excellent in all she does but deep inside me my heart was with d igbo lady. I didnt have a choice but I swear down i know i know she loves me n will eventually want to come back. Last 2wks i left BY to ABJ to my new office. Left d sweet AK ibom girl in BY.and dunno when we gon be seeing buh d relationship still intact.Now d tin is my girL in PH has stylishly forgotten n we now communicate as before n joke n laf n smile she said she never left me buh wanted me to think n decide wat i rily want with my life. She visited me yesterday mehn she still tyt oo. tho i lied i wasnt in any relatiIonship with anybody and i want to face my future. She processing her posting to ABJ. Wen she comes it is blvd if evrything works fine we gon get married. U know d problem cos dt AK girl wont take it likely dt i dcvd her... Nd if dis escalates i myt lost everything. I dont think i wanna lose my real love. I may not live with