I have dated this guy for two years...he is 29 and am 24..fr...

I have dated this guy for two years...he is 29 and am 24..from our discussion, he said he will marry are the age of 30 ie next year.I have refused him sex for two years ..we promised each other no sex before marriage which he accepted though sometimes he do feel somehow.
My fear is that I will be going for NYSC by year ending....am afraid another gal may give it to him which may destroy our relationship
Please I need practical comments here... I am equally aware that Bible condemns sex before marriage but I want sincere comments.. my question is this..
Can someone lose his or her true love because of refusing him or her sex?....NB:am not a virgin and am not seeing someone else..it's just a personal decision..

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