I must confesss... I'm a 30-year-old- woman involved with two men. I've been with the first one for two years and he promise to marry me. He was unemployed for a long time so we could not get married. When he managed to get a job, he said nothing about the wedding and kept on saying he is not earning enough money. I started sleeping with the second man and now he also want to marry m... + Read comments

I must confess..... During the past three years my friends life has changed. She lost her dad who was the bread winner of her family. Her mother was involved in a terrible car accident and she is now paralysed. she cannot work because she is in wheelchair.she had to drop out of school and get a job. she is a waitress at a restaurant in Lagos, but not earning enough. she want to go back to scho... + Read comments

Please help me, i am addicted to NAIJAPALS!!!... + Read comments

i have being loving guys all my life but now to my account i have dated 27 boys and they have all hurted me so now i have decided to be a lesbian if any girl is available she should tell me but pls am i doing the right thing... + Read comments

Hey make u na stop sending me private i said no i don get woman, and she dey here on 9ijapals, so if u dont want me to send her ur mail u all better find another guy, abi den no dey fine i fine ni abeg, free me, cos if my gurl catch u hun she go tear u into 10 parts, she no dey take me play oooo... + Read comments

well,i knw he loves me! he dnt want to trust me! he is faraway from me! he think i have sumoneelse! i told him am going out lastnite! he said okay and he signed out on me! i signed in this morning and he never gimme attention! he send some stuffs to me..which make me realise he was thinking i dont love him! i love you for real! and youre the only one i have! dont lets start with this! ... + Read comments

I must confesss.. I'm 25 and I have been with my boyfriend for three years. Two years ago, i discovered that my boyfriend was cheating on me. when i confronted him, he told me the truth but would not tell me who she was. A month later, i realises he was still cheating on me- with my best friend. He broke up with her immediately. My problem is, i have not made peace with my best friend.Ever... + Read comments

if i must confess, i just don"t understand why nigerian youths would want to waste their time and effort to look for a job when there is none. vacancies would be asking for years of experience, where person want take get am from? well i come with a new mindset, forget about those vacancies, don"t worry about the shell or chevron jobs, create your own job. it"s been proven that nige... + Read comments

I must confess.. My man is out of control with jealousy. I have never done anything to make him suspicious but he is always on my case. He goes as far as coming with me on girls' night and it is frustrating me and my friends. I love him but I am beginning to think that he might be doing something that is making him feel guilty. What should i do to assure him that i only have eyes for him.... + Read comments

okk i am a pretty nigerian girl who does not like white guys...However recently some white guys added me on a website..I have noticed that all those white guys ask me"do u like sex" , "u want webcam sex" and so on..i dress decently, i dont even wear mini skirts ...so far i have blocked 3 white guys in jst one day..are all white guys like that?... + Read comments