i met a guy John1971 here we became friends. and he told me he based in UK but he will be coming back to nigeria this year and that he would like to meet me. i innocently believed him. on Tuesday he sent me a message that there is a bonanza going on at the mall in UK, that he wants to get me some things like jewelries, ladies wear, phone etc. i doubted him but he made me believe hes doing it beca... + Read comments

My big mess keep getting large, a couple of weeks ago, i did posted on this site regarding an affair with my secretary. since then have tried to break it off with her, but now she playing the joker card on me saying she pregnant and ready to have the baby... should i inform my wife about it immediately?.. or fire her and she will go to my wife according to her statement.. what should i do?... + Read comments

pls pals, is it a crime to be angry when ur fiancee does somthing wrong. i think she is disrespecting me. when she does somthing wrong she expect me to tell her sorry how can. She will stop talking to me untill i talk to her first. She thinks the fault is from me whereas the fault is from her.... + Read comments

Dear fellow pals. I need your mature advice on this issue that I am going through right now. I m a lady of 31years by age. Married to a yoruba guy, , we both have a beautiful daughter born in US. The issue is this I am super scared about this marriage, reason because in laws don't like me and the way I am Seing things is like they r using me.using me in the sense that they want me to bring th... + Read comments

Am so so angry and I don't know how to come out of dis bad mood everything is not going well at all,as a young girl, all is not well, I feel like dying... + Read comments

Please friends. some of you may misunderstand this but I would like you all to put yourselves in my shoes and reason together with me. Your honest and humble suggestions is all I need. Earlier before the valentine day, I fixed a date with my girlfriend on valentine day. A day before that day I called her again to notify her about our date but she wasn't picking the call. On that day, she was n... + Read comments

Guys, there was this argument with some of my work mates today at work and I would ask the same guys and let me hear your view. "Can you Fart/Mess/Pollute the air when you and your spouse is together. Many of my work mates says it's very bad. To me I don't see anything wrong. My woman can even brush her teeth while am shiting in the toilet.... + Read comments

btw men and women who handles breakup well and who is the most affected.... + Read comments

my wonderful pals i need ur advice, my fiance did my introduction last Xmas, and our wedding is on this Easter, the problem now its that he lives in the family house wit his people, any time i visit they wil like me me to do all the house chores, am scared that means after after wedding they wil turn me to their house maid which i cannot take, i have conplained to my man, he said we will pack out ... + Read comments

I am 27yrs old, How can my husband seize having sex with me for the past 5 days, whenever i confront him, he will respond he is not feeling fine and that he is having pains in his chest. I cant cheat on him, but am always in the mood whenever am naked with him in the room. What can i do? Matured mind please. ... + Read comments