BEST SEXUAL ACT IN MATRIMONIAL
Jul. 30th 06:57 PM 2009
Man is active, and the hunter. Woman is passive, and the hunted
a woman needs a man permanently, to take care of her and her children. Out of this arise a very high level of polarity between the two opposites. Out of any polarity between opposites, comes energy and altered states of consciousness,sleeping with one's spouse within marriage, is very useful for meditational purposes.
A person sacrifices themselves. In the orgy, this means complete abandonment, within certain rules. A person can completely abandon themselves to a God or Goddess, as the only one who may get hurt, is the person themselves. In the case of a party or orgy, people want fun. They do not want fights, and ladies do not want any risk of pregnancy, and damage to their marriage or marital prospects. Few normal people wish to witness sexual intercourse between other people. At a normal party, everyone normally believes that everyone else knows the rules, which is not always true. There are considerable differences in moral codes.
between boy's with girl and men with woman. This often leads to friction. There is a very good case for writing the rules down, and putting the list up on the wall, as long as all such lists are written by women, as they have more to lose, if things go wrong.
Within marriage, with modern contraception, any couple can have their own private orgy, every time they sleep together. They can completely abandon themselves to their partners. After all, a person's sexual apparatus is the property of their married partner. To a man, his wife is his own personal Goddess of love, or should be, and is the earthly representation of the Goddesses on higher levels, especially in the bedroom. To a woman her husband should be her lord and master. For emotional purposes he should be the representative of the male Gods. In the bedroom see your partner as a representative of higher beings. This is an excellent basis for meditation.
Sexual polarity, or the difference between the sexes, outside marriage, is a great source of energy. Unless it is earthed by sexual relations within marriage, this polarity can go very sour. This energy can be converted into meditational energy, and is different from complete abandonment. It is an advantage for the husband to have other lady friends, and for the wife to have men . friends. This is provided everything is quite out in the open, . and there is no question of sexual intercourse, except between married partners. There must be no question of any serious outside . relationship. It is good manners for a man to let lady colleagues know that he is married. This does not inhibit casual friendship. Friction can arise in marriage. Psychiatrists have pointed out the most common cause of trouble. This is the partners having different sexual appetites. A solution that works very well, is to put sex on a time table. If the agreement is three times a week, then say do it on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday.
There is an excellent way of getting into union with your Goddess or God, during the sexual act. This is to put one's hands, one on each side of your partner's head, hands not touching, faith healing style. Get your partner to do the same for you. The result is that one not only enjoys one's own part of the act, but can flip into the partner's body, and enjoy their side too. This greatly increases the bonding between married couples. Do not under any circumstances, do this on a one night stand, or you will finish up by marrying the girl or the boy.
In the bedroom, if your wife is willing, but not in a good mood, then there is a good way of allowing her to abreact. Pin her arms down, so that she cannot poke you in the ribs. Tell her to hate you as much as she likes, and then get on with the sexual act. This is highly therapeutic
I do not approve of sex outside some sort of marriage or union. The object of marriage is the production of children. There are too many diseases around to frustrate the production of children when they are required. No one is perfect. The condom is good for keeping disease at bay. In some medical circles, commercial contraceptive creams are well thought of. They are more effective against cystitis, and other infections, than anything a doctor can prescribe. Do not under any circumstances, try to get into sexual union with a God of the same sex, otherwise a person will get what he deserves.