Am in deep shit. My mom wont allow me go live on ma own. She said she must come with me. I announced my going to get my own apartment to live cos am in my late early 30s and would need to be on my own, my brothers felt sad to the extent of crying. They broke my heart by saying, my father is not alive and am like a father and husband to them, now i want to leave them. They were like, I should finish the building project which i'm currently building a 5 bedroom bugalow for them to live before moving out, but i know its a tactics to delay me and when am done with the building, with so much rooms, they would want me to live with them. Jeeees, how do i get out of this situation, will someone help me please.
I love them so much and its not like am going out of the state, we will still keep in touch and i would get to see them often, but i gotta go start a life of my own.
Posted: at 12-11-2011 11:41 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
babyleslie at 12-11-2011 11:47 PM (12 years ago) (f)
U want use system tell us sey u dey build house @ ur age... Congrats..
Posted: at 12-11-2011 11:47 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Before una start to think say na me and begin rain abuses. I got this message from a blog website and i decided to share it here. Am not the person in concern.
Posted: at 13-11-2011 12:07 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
babyleslie at 13-11-2011 03:55 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: igbsam on 13-11-2011 12:07 AM
Before una start to think say na me and begin rain abuses. I got this message from a blog website and i decided to share it here. Am not the person in concern.
ok..sorry
Posted: at 13-11-2011 03:55 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Are you in your late 30s or early 30s? Your write up is confusing on that. There comes a point in a man's life when he must make that drastic decision - you are at that point now. If you really want to grow up, you need to move NOW regardless of what anyone says. You can be on your own and still help your family. But if you are still with them, you will simply live your life for them. PACK UP and GO!!!!
Posted: at 13-11-2011 05:36 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
richiestone at 13-11-2011 10:02 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Nonsense, do you relay need addvice on that handle Ur mom and Ur sibling, man shame on you, do not live them live and die with them . comfirmed mu mu (guffee). married Ur mama and adorte Sibling.
Posted: at 13-11-2011 10:02 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
[colour=red]Am in deep shit.[/colour] My mom wont allow me go live on ma own. She said she must come with me. I announced my going to get my own apartment to live cos am in my late early 30s and would need to be on my own, my brothers felt sad to the extent of crying. They broke my heart by saying, my father is not alive and am like a father and husband to them, now i want to leave them. They were like, I should finish the building project which i'm currently building a 5 bedroom bugalow for them to live before moving out, but i know its a tactics to delay me and when am done with the building, with so much rooms, they would want me to live with them. Jeeees, how do i get out of this situation, will someone help me please. I love them so much and its not like am going out of the state, we will still keep in touch and i would get to see them often, but i gotta go start a life of my own.
even ur profile pic shows ur in deep shit
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Posted: at 13-11-2011 10:16 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
bandadge at 13-11-2011 10:51 PM (12 years ago) (f)
oh! boy i dey smell rat here, i be like say, u are having affair with your mum, no second thought abt it, since you are now like father to them, i guess you are doing all the works of a husband including planting and haversting in the garden of eden.
Posted: at 13-11-2011 10:51 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
Nonsense, do you relay need addvice on that handle Ur mom and Ur sibling, man shame on you, do not live them live and die with them . comfirmed mu mu (guffee). married Ur mama and adorte Sibling.
bruv which university yu attend lol..............ur english dey confuse------------yu 2uch!!
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 13-11-2011 10:52 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
oh! boy i dey smell rat here, i be like say, u are having affair with your mum, no second thought abt it, since you are now like father to them, i guess you are doing all the works of a husband including planting and haversting in the garden of eden.
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my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 13-11-2011 10:54 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Like i said guys, am not the person in question. I got this from a blog site and decided to put it here to hear ur response on issues like this. Reasons are that so many people find themselves in this kind of situation and try to find a way out of it. The Strong Bond between family is a bit hard to let go especially when either the mom or d dad is late. And also, being the 1st in the family. Matured minds should comment and not some kids who have no ideas what it feels like and think its a toy dat needs to be played with. Some people comment here sef no gel at all....Na by force to comment ?
Posted: at 14-11-2011 05:59 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming