So I went on a date where a guy asked me out, I chose the location and we ate full. Typically on a first date a guy pays for the meal, but this one told me that his first rule is that he never pays for the first date. I said.. "What?", in awe that I wasn't aware of such a rule. He asked me if I could respect that, I said yes, and just thought this guy has to be joking so I played along like a TV Show. He then looked at me like "Okay so are you going to pay". I said no, I'm not going to pay for that, and looked in my bag to a stack of cash and said "Oh I left my bank card at home and I left my wallet with all of my money so I can't pay". Of course that was a lie, but since he was playing I decided to play too. He then said that he had no money at all that he deliberately left it at home including his Identification. (See me see wahala oo) He was laughing and smiling so I knew it was some kind of scam, but being that he tried to FORCE me to pay for the food, I couldn't bring myself to be respect him. So I got on the phone, called a friend, and said HELP. I cooked up a story that my friend would pay. I got up and walked out of the door and said I would be back. He followed me outside and I wondered why. Then told me that I should come with him to go see some sights. God forbid what kind of foolish antics he had next so I decline and was adamant about meeting my friend. He then confessed that he paid for the food and we should go somewhere else. Emi ko! I was so threw with it all. I didn't want to be around such a creep.
He then sends me a message saying "make sure you have money to cover your own meal" lol I then replied in short saying how he tried to scam me but he met his match. And this wasn't a nigerian, but a Black American, and he also claimed to be a Millionaire. Who cares, he can go to hell with his millions. I think he just wanted to feel like he won, he sat and ate with a beautiful lady AND she paid for her meal, guess he wanted to be treated like a woman. Little things like that make people miss out on good people, oh well.
Posted: at 10-11-2011 10:18 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
sophiebaby at 10-11-2011 10:28 AM (12 years ago) (f)
If he cant pay for dinner or buy ordinary suya, he has no moral right to ask her to take her clothes off . Paying for dinner is the down payment on the sex he should be having later that night. . so many men tink and feels they got moral right over a womans body when they do the payment for dinner.. lol..pay i chop and go my house..joor..even with some take away sef..lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 10-11-2011 10:28 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
giftmurphy at 10-11-2011 12:54 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 10-11-2011 10:28 AM
If he cant pay for dinner or buy ordinary suya, he has no moral right to ask her to take her clothes off . Paying for dinner is the down payment on the sex he should be having later that night. . so many men tink and feels they got moral right over a womans body when they do the payment for dinner.. lol..pay i chop and go my house..joor..even with some take away sef..lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
i follow u...na true u talk.
Posted: at 10-11-2011 12:54 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
;Dtoo glad he met his match. what a freaky guy!! haba, how e wan take a Hot bebe home if e no fit pay for meal? serves him right. does he think Americanas are smarter that naija ppl? orangeb, i gbadu ur moves jo...u be correct naija bebe
Posted: at 10-11-2011 12:57 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
;Dtoo glad he met his match. what a freaky guy!! haba, how e wan take a Hot bebe home if e no fit pay for meal? serves him right. does he think Americanas are smarter that naija ppl? orangeb, i gbadu ur moves jo...u be correct naija bebe
If I was the poster. I will only cover my own meals and walked out the door!
Posted: at 10-11-2011 05:55 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
crusifixo at 10-11-2011 06:03 PM (12 years ago) (m)
ol........................my own rule be say i go only pay first after that na you go dey pay the rest see guy man..........may b the package no tight so him come think say e go b waste of money ...............
Posted: at 10-11-2011 06:03 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
@ ashimole and crusifixo.....sorry. Una no go fit carry one babe go face for a nice restaurant oh without extra cash. Just try it and see for yourselves.
Posted: at 10-11-2011 06:08 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
............It aint a RULE dat a guys' gotta foot de bill on de first date........don't get it wrong................It aint shit to pay for a meal u intend putting in ur belly...............foot urs and he'll foot his...no biggie.......its a DATE not a FEED/BRIDE-ME-TO-STAY ish.............sm gurls gotta get dem pride up and stop expecting alot frm guys based on a silly Made-up RULE!!!..............
Posted: at 10-11-2011 06:40 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
lovecommander at 10-11-2011 06:50 PM (12 years ago) (m)
IT LOOK LIKE WHAT YOU WACKED PASS THE GUY POCKET. THE WAY SOME GIRLS EAT ON A DATE GIVES YOU THE IMPRESSION OF HOW HUNGRY THEY ARE. WELL HER CONDUCT CERTAINLY PISSED THE GUY OFF AND IS A FURTHER WASTE TO COMMIT HIS MONEY ON A WASTEFUL VENTURE.
Posted: at 10-11-2011 06:50 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
I am really sorry but if you actually believe what you said then its a pity. Look, am a guy too and I consider any girl that thinks that my paying 4 her food is her right as cheap. Don't get me wrong, I always pay 4 the food if I feel like it. If I don't necessarily like the girl or the company I may not, it actually depends on my mood (I don't really care to be a gentleman). Its sad but you girls ask yourselves why the guy doesn't call you back after having dinner and your arse a couple of time in the night but you don't remember this your funny mentality. Ask men, they'd tell you.
Confucius says: Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do.
Posted: at 10-11-2011 07:08 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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