help!help he needs a urgent engagement.

Date: 30-10-2011 8:18 pm (12 years ago) | Author: vikkyimoh
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- at 30-10-2011 08:18 PM (12 years ago)
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i have a boyfrnd we'have been dating for two years now.am in luv wit him,and now he is talking marriage but i dont see him as a husband material.he does not have the qualities of a potential husband material.should i pretend or accept?pls wat should i do?


  

Posted: at 30-10-2011 08:18 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Swtezvikky at 30-10-2011 08:19 PM (12 years ago)
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i have a boyfrnd we'have been dating for two years now.am in luv wit him,and now he is talking marriage but i dont see him as a husband material.he does not have the qualities of a potential husband material.should i pretend or accept?pls wat should i do   
Posted: at 30-10-2011 08:19 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 30-10-2011 08:24 PM (12 years ago)
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sorry poster yu mean his a gay?

Posted: at 30-10-2011 08:24 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 30-10-2011 09:24 PM (12 years ago)
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who is him that then now have husband materials?
listen if you really love him like you said go ahead and marry him, besides is something you found in him that makes you fell in love with him, so he can just lack all the amenities girl.
excepts you find yourself someone much berra then him,,

Posted: at 30-10-2011 09:24 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 30-10-2011 09:25 PM (12 years ago)
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tell us the truth nothing but the truth...who's your new catch?

Posted: at 30-10-2011 09:25 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- babyleslie at 30-10-2011 09:30 PM (12 years ago)
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If he's not a husband material, why date him for 2 wasted yrs??
Posted: at 30-10-2011 09:30 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wandepope at 30-10-2011 09:57 PM (12 years ago)
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in this era that people who are interested in getting married much are not much you see one whom YOU LOVE and is ready TO MARRY YOU yet you say he is not husband material,...to some extent i think what you should look out for is if he makes a good FATHER.A good ffather for the sake of his children will make a good husband.ABOVE ALL IS HE GOD FEARING,if he is then he is a good husband.GOODLUCK and GOD bless you.
Posted: at 30-10-2011 09:57 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- babyleslie at 30-10-2011 10:01 PM (12 years ago)
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If he's a billionaire..then he is husband material abi?
Posted: at 30-10-2011 10:01 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wandepope at 30-10-2011 10:06 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: babyleslie on 30-10-2011 10:01 PM
If he's a billionaire..then he is husband material abi?

one true quality of a husband material that tend to cover for the absence of several other qualities.
Posted: at 30-10-2011 10:06 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- babyleslie at 30-10-2011 10:17 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: wandepope on 30-10-2011 10:06 PM
Quote from: babyleslie on 30-10-2011 10:01 PM
If he's a billionaire..then he is husband material abi?

one true quality of a husband material that tend to cover for the absence of several other qualities.
Trust babes!!
Posted: at 30-10-2011 10:17 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- wandepope at 30-10-2011 10:22 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: babyleslie on 30-10-2011 10:17 PM
Quote from: wandepope on 30-10-2011 10:06 PM
Quote from: babyleslie on 30-10-2011 10:01 PM
If he's a billionaire..then he is husband material abi?

one true quality of a husband material that tend to cover for the absence of several other qualities.
Trust babes!!

they know how to make right what is originally wrong,maybe its their talent.Money can pay for manyof the damages caused by the absence of husband material qualities
Posted: at 30-10-2011 10:22 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- babyleslie at 30-10-2011 10:25 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: wandepope on 30-10-2011 10:22 PM
Quote from: babyleslie on 30-10-2011 10:17 PM
Quote from: wandepope on 30-10-2011 10:06 PM
Quote from: babyleslie on 30-10-2011 10:01 PM
If he's a billionaire..then he is husband material abi?

one true quality of a husband material that tend to cover for the absence of several other qualities.
Trust babes!!

they know how to make right what is originally wrong,maybe its their talent.Money can pay for manyof the damages caused by the absence of husband material qualities
True talk..
Posted: at 30-10-2011 10:25 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 30-10-2011 10:50 PM (12 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

Posted: at 30-10-2011 10:50 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- babyleslie at 30-10-2011 11:08 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 30-10-2011 10:50 PM
Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Kebby baby, why did u change ur profile pix? My son dey crazy 4 dat pix..he laugh everytime he sees dat..
Posted: at 30-10-2011 11:08 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- trolling at 30-10-2011 11:14 PM (12 years ago)
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he dont even matter, he don chop wetin him go chop, why buy the cow when yu can get the milk free
Posted: at 30-10-2011 11:14 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- GullahGeeche at 30-10-2011 11:16 PM (12 years ago)
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Why would you spend two years with someone who is not husband material?

Are you using him? Or are you afraid to leave him?  Huh? Huh?


Posted: at 30-10-2011 11:16 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Beauti4 at 31-10-2011 12:20 AM (12 years ago)
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Poster, marriage is like your Protective brother, your understandable sister, your kindhearted mother, your Brave Father, and your true best friend. If you don't see any of these things in him, please hold your peace and help him out. Remember Courtship is a learning process, and not the road to the ALTAR. if there is no change in this man then definitely he is a mama's boy. He can't make decision on his own. (Hope not!)
He suppose to lead you, but plz do not be fast to judge the cover of his book because you guys are only two yrs old in this race. You are very lucky my sister to have meet a guy who is free of himself because some men will pretend in such a way that you will never care to investigate anything about him b4 saying "I Do" as the end you find every man to blame for your ignorant. But guess what? Your man is open/been himself at the same time so you have plenty of time to teach him what he needs to know.
Men does not come to us if we can't help them become somebody. So my sis accept the proposal, but do not jump into any marriage thing with him until you have read him, understand him, accepted him for him. Until you are sure that you can tolerate some nonsense from him. Please oh....time is the master, and the master is God. So let Time and Nature lead the way....Ku LUCK!  Wink
Posted: at 31-10-2011 12:20 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- dhowafe at 31-10-2011 12:26 AM (12 years ago)
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Poster! Poster!! tell us, what are the qualities of a husband material that u think u know, and out list the once u think he does not have, only then i can advise u. but mind u, na the pikin wen say my mama soup no sweet, na em dey go manage neighbour own oo!!
Posted: at 31-10-2011 12:26 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dhowafe at 31-10-2011 12:32 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Beauti4 on 31-10-2011 12:20 AM
Poster, marriage is like your Protective brother, your understandable sister, your kindhearted mother, your Brave Father, and your true best friend. If you don't see any of these things in him, please hold your peace and help him out. Remember Courtship is a learning process, and not the road to the ALTAR. if there is no change in this man then definitely he is a mama's boy. He can't make decision on his own. (Hope not!)
He suppose to lead you, but plz do not be fast to judge the cover of his book because you guys are only two yrs old in this race. You are very lucky my sister to have meet a guy who is free of himself because some men will pretend in such a way that you will never care to investigate anything about him b4 saying "I Do" as the end you find every man to blame for your ignorant. But guess what? Your man is open/been himself at the same time so you have plenty of time to teach him what he needs to know.
Men does not come to us if we can't help them become somebody. So my sis accept the proposal, but do not jump into any marriage thing with him until you have read him, understand him, accepted him for him. Until you are sure that you can tolerate some nonsense from him. Please oh....time is the master, and the master is God. So let Time and Nature lead the way....Ku LUCK!  Wink

Chai!! my MAMA dey wait for u 4 house oo!! na u she say i must marry.. i be no knw say some girls still fit knw book like this.. kai!! come take Kiss Kiss ur MAMA train u well well..
Posted: at 31-10-2011 12:32 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Beauti4 at 31-10-2011 12:46 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dhowafe on 31-10-2011 12:32 AM
Quote from: Beauti4 on 31-10-2011 12:20 AM
Poster, marriage is like your Protective brother, your understandable sister, your kindhearted mother, your Brave Father, and your true best friend. If you don't see any of these things in him, please hold your peace and help him out. Remember Courtship is a learning process, and not the road to the ALTAR. if there is no change in this man then definitely he is a mama's boy. He can't make decision on his own. (Hope not!)
He suppose to lead you, but plz do not be fast to judge the cover of his book because you guys are only two yrs old in this race. You are very lucky my sister to have meet a guy who is free of himself because some men will pretend in such a way that you will never care to investigate anything about him b4 saying "I Do" as the end you find every man to blame for your ignorant. But guess what? Your man is open/been himself at the same time so you have plenty of time to teach him what he needs to know.
Men does not come to us if we can't help them become somebody. So my sis accept the proposal, but do not jump into any marriage thing with him until you have read him, understand him, accepted him for him. Until you are sure that you can tolerate some nonsense from him. Please oh....time is the master, and the master is God. So let Time and Nature lead the way....Ku LUCK!  Wink

Chai!! my MAMA dey wait for u 4 house oo!! na u she say i must marry.. i be no knw say some girls still fit knw book like this.. kai!! come take Kiss Kiss ur MAMA train u well well..

 Grin Sir, you just dey take small style dey yan us abi? OK oh, thanks for the kiss and tell your MAMA say I never reach any marriageable age yet.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 12:46 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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