I got a girl pregnant last month. No, she wasn't my girlfriend. We only had sex on two occasions. But she didn't want to keep the baby. It looks like I don't have a say...it's her body, and she's adamant. What is your opinion? What would you do in my position?
Posted: at 10-04-2011 03:27 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
frayobkk at 10-04-2011 03:40 PM (13 years ago) (m)
she is not ur Bf i guess any way dont just say she is adamant as long as that pregnancy is concern is sin that both of u guys comited together if she abort it u have ur own chear of the sin so try as much as u can to make her not to abort the baby
Jesus replied, "What is impossible with men is possible with God." Luke 18:27
Posted: at 10-04-2011 03:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jasonbod at 10-04-2011 03:52 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: frayobkk on 10-04-2011 03:40 PM
she is not ur Gf i guess any way dont just say she is adamant as long as that pregnancy is concern is sin that both of u guys comited together if she abort it u have ur own chear of the sin so try as much as u can to make her not to abort the baby
She argues that it was only casual sex and that she had no intentions of ending up with a baby. I begged her not to abort, but she won't listen.
Posted: at 10-04-2011 03:52 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Youngstoriez at 10-04-2011 04:26 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Guy if yu begged her and she wouldnt listen....allow her do her will...bsides why wud yu have sex wif a girl who's not ur girlfriend???...uh??? aint fair, is she a hallot???
Posted: at 10-04-2011 04:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jasonbod at 10-04-2011 04:41 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Youngstoriez on 10-04-2011 04:26 PM
Guy if yu begged her and she wouldnt listen....allow her do her will...bsides why wud yu have sex wif a girl who's not ur girlfriend???...uh??? aint fair, is she a hallot???
I guess you're right about that. She insists she don't want the baby. Well, she ain't a harlot, she's just a girl I met at a party and one thing led to another and we had sex in my friend's bedroom at the party, and then the next day she came to my apartment and we had sex again. Only on two occasions. So no, we were never an item. She ain't my girlfriend as such.
Posted: at 10-04-2011 04:41 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
truenaija2 at 10-04-2011 04:57 PM (13 years ago) (f)
sorry about it but bringing up a child is not an easy thing giving birth to a child no be mouth too , so let her do what she thinks is best for her cos thats her life her body and her future it will affect not necessarily yours , the woman carries the burden of child birth and rearing
Posted: at 10-04-2011 04:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jasonbod at 10-04-2011 05:14 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: truenaija2 on 10-04-2011 04:57 PM
sorry about it but bringing up a child is not an easy thing giving birth to a child no be mouth too , so let her do what she thinks is best for her cos thats her life her body and her future it will affect not necessarily yours , the woman carries the burden of child birth and rearing
It is nice to get a woman's perspective on this. Thank you. At the end of the day, yes, a woman carries the burden the most... because she would have to give birth and to look after the baby, even with my support in raising the kid, maybe it is not enough for her. I think she's not ready for that, and we are not in love. We're just two people who chose to have sex together. She knew at the time that she could get pregnant but she took her chances. I wasn't aware of this. She hadn't warned me.
Posted: at 10-04-2011 05:14 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
bittersweet at 10-04-2011 05:30 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jasonbod on 10-04-2011 03:27 PM
I got a girl pregnant last month. No, she wasn't my girlfriend. We only had sex on two occasions. But she didn't want to keep the baby. It looks like I don't have a say...it's her body, and she's adamant. What is your opinion? What would you do in my position?
I suppose u don't need us to tell u that what u've done was totally irresponsible, right? Now,the child!Let's say u would succeed convincing her to keep it!What next? Are u ready to take that responsibility? And I mean, a lifetime responsibility, not just for a while!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 10-04-2011 05:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
jasonbod at 10-04-2011 05:46 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: bittersweet on 10-04-2011 05:30 PM
Quote from: jasonbod on 10-04-2011 03:27 PM
I got a girl pregnant last month. No, she wasn't my girlfriend. We only had sex on two occasions. But she didn't want to keep the baby. It looks like I don't have a say...it's her body, and she's adamant. What is your opinion? What would you do in my position?
I suppose u don't need us to tell u that what u've done was totally irresponsible, right? Now,the child!Let's say u would succeed convincing her to keep it!What next? Are u ready to take that responsibility? And I mean, a lifetime responsibility, not just for a while!
Irresponsible how? Cos we had unprotected sex? I guess you have a point there, but it's already happened. I wish I could turn back the clock.
Posted: at 10-04-2011 05:46 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Youngstoriez at 10-04-2011 07:22 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: jasonbod on 10-04-2011 05:46 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 10-04-2011 05:30 PM
Quote from: jasonbod on 10-04-2011 03:27 PM
I got a girl pregnant last month. No, she wasn't my girlfriend. We only had sex on two occasions. But she didn't want to keep the baby. It looks like I don't have a say...it's her body, and she's adamant. What is your opinion? What would you do in my position?
I suppose u don't need us to tell u that what u've done was totally irresponsible, right? Now,the child!Let's say u would succeed convincing her to keep it!What next? Are u ready to take that responsibility? And I mean, a lifetime responsibility, not just for a while!
Irresponsible how? Cos we had unprotected sex? I guess you have a point there, but it's already happened. I wish I could turn back the clock.
Posted: at 10-04-2011 07:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Youngstoriez at 10-04-2011 07:28 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: jasonbod on 10-04-2011 05:14 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 10-04-2011 04:57 PM
sorry about it but bringing up a child is not an easy thing giving birth to a child no be mouth too , so let her do what she thinks is best for her cos thats her life her body and her future it will affect not necessarily yours , the woman carries the burden of child birth and rearing
It is nice to get a woman's perspective on this. Thank you. At the end of the day, yes, a woman carries the burden the most... because she would have to give birth and to look after the baby, even with my support in raising the kid, maybe it is not enough for her. I think she's not ready for that, and we are not in love. We're just two people who chose to have sex together. She knew at the time that she could get pregnant but she took her chances. I wasn't aware of this. She hadn't warned me.
...mehn, dats to bad anyway!!...save ur self d stress...if she doesnt want to!
Posted: at 10-04-2011 07:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
mediaexcell at 10-04-2011 07:45 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: jasonbod on 10-04-2011 03:27 PM
I got a girl pregnant last month. No, she wasn't my girlfriend. We only had sex on two occasions. But she didn't want to keep the baby. It looks like I don't have a say...it's her body, and she's adamant. What is your opinion? What would you do in my position?
i cant be in ur position but all the same, if she is reluctant about the idea of keeping it, then let her do wat she wants..
Posted: at 10-04-2011 07:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 10-04-2011 07:46 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jasonbod on 10-04-2011 05:46 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 10-04-2011 05:30 PM
Quote from: jasonbod on 10-04-2011 03:27 PM
I got a girl pregnant last month. No, she wasn't my girlfriend. We only had sex on two occasions. But she didn't want to keep the baby. It looks like I don't have a say...it's her body, and she's adamant. What is your opinion? What would you do in my position?
I suppose u don't need us to tell u that what u've done was totally irresponsible, right? Now,the child!Let's say u would succeed convincing her to keep it!What next? Are u ready to take that responsibility? And I mean, a lifetime responsibility, not just for a while!
Irresponsible how? Cos we had unprotected sex? I guess you have a point there, but it's already happened. I wish I could turn back the clock.
Well, we can't turn back the hands of time,but these kind of mistakes have consequences! Pity!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 10-04-2011 07:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
jasonbod at 10-04-2011 07:57 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: mediaexcell on 10-04-2011 07:45 PM
Quote from: jasonbod on 10-04-2011 03:27 PM
I got a girl pregnant last month. No, she wasn't my girlfriend. We only had sex on two occasions. But she didn't want to keep the baby. It looks like I don't have a say...it's her body, and she's adamant. What is your opinion? What would you do in my position?
i cant be in ur position but all the same, if she is reluctant about the idea of keeping it, then let her do wat she wants..
Never say never bro, this can happen to anyone . Thanks for your comment.
Posted: at 10-04-2011 07:57 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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