Found this on yahoo news, I tink it will b of help to many of us having problem in our relationships
Almost all couples fight; the secret is to fight right.
I’ve posted before about what NOT to say during a fight. Here are some phrases that will actually help.
When the Big Man and I are arguing, I find that the single best technique to apply is HUMOR. If one of us can laugh and joke around, the crabby mood lifts instantly. But during an argument, it can be hard to see the funny side of things.
Failing that, here are twenty-one phrases that help turn down the heat of anger:
Please try to understand my point of view. Wait, can I take that back? You don’t have to solve this—it helps me just to talk to you. This is important to me. Please listen. I overreacted, I’m sorry. I see you’re in a tough position. I can see my part in this. I hadn’t thought of it that way before. I could be wrong. Let’s agree to disagree on that. This isn’t just your problem, it’s our problem. I’m feeling unappreciated. We’re getting off the subject. You’ve convinced me. Please keep talking to me. I realize it's not your fault. That came out all wrong. I see how I contributed to the problem. What are we really fighting about? How can I make things better? I’m sorry. I love you.
Yuki Yuki darling, The Lady Love bug bite...... that's good points but the problem is how many people out there are ready to make the use of the five letter word "SORRY" when is needed and at the right time? thats the issue . very simple word but difficult for many to apply it.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 3-03-2011 05:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
yukicares4u at 3-03-2011 05:37 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: adams933 on 3-03-2011 05:32 PM
Quote from: yukicares4u on 3-03-2011 05:31 PM
hehehe....Michro...no [email protected] hear u...abeg tell me d one wey u like pass jare?
2moro, I need to do some research first before commenting.
hehehe Adam so u wan go cause trouble with her....then come do experiment...lol.... @DK...hmmm luv bug...hehehe..well SORRY is d hardest word 2 say like pple alwaz put it...ok do u ve any cure for my bug bite...lol @sobeit...oya talk jare!
Posted: at 3-03-2011 05:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
hehehe....Michro...no [email protected] hear u...abeg tell me d one wey u like pass jare?
2moro, I need to do some research first before commenting.
hehehe Adam so u wan go cause trouble with her....then come do experiment...lol.... @DK...hmmm luv bug...hehehe..well SORRY is d hardest word 2 say like pple alwaz put it...ok do u ve any cure for my bug bite...lol @sobeit...oya talk jare!
I think Yes !! I still have Anti Love Bug Bite spray with me, You just have to come to my office, for official spraying
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 3-03-2011 05:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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