She's invited to join her family abroad but she loves him...

A friend confided in me, needing a piece of advice. She is in her late twenties, had been in two previous relationships but was unlucky. She is very enterprising and is quite comfortable, and she thinks that has kind of scared some guys away. Now a young man has indicated interest in her just as she has an invitation to join her parents abroad. She is torn between joining her family and staying back because of him. Meanwhile, he has not made any proposal, but says he believes they have a future together.

Dear friends, please help me out; what do you think I should tell her?

Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

SHE SHOULD STAY BACK AND FIX THINGS WITH  THE GUY,PRAY IT LEADS TO UNION,TRAVEL CAN WAIT.U CAN TRAVEL WEN EVER U WANT ONCE U GOT OPPORTUNITY.THAT GUY MIGHT BE HER HUSBAND,IF THINGS WORK AS PLAN BOTH OF THEM CAN HAVE A FUTURE EITHER ABROAD OR NAIJA,ANYWHERE.

Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:30 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

due to her previous experiences and her impression that she should be married by now, she is quite confused.

Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hissss,,,tell her to go and meet her family abroad....if this guy is truly for her..no matter what they will still be one...this is her opportunity to go to abroad now....if she decide to stay back...and things didn't work out..yanwa don gas...meanwhile,it her choice sha..she can still be in abroad and still get intouch with him or visite him..

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Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:50 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:21 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Abroad? Where? Abeg stop post trash. I cald it!

Posted: at 2-03-2011 12:18 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

na wetin be all this naaa???

Posted: at 2-03-2011 12:39 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

The fact that she is confused means she is not completely in love with this guy. Or is she thinking of what will become of her enterprising business? In these hard times men like enterpring and well-to-do women. This guy who has not proposed may be hitching a ride on her wealth and not for the love of her. She should travel and explore other opportunities that life has to offer then she can make informed decision as to who to marry.

Posted: at 2-03-2011 02:20 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Why re pple so quest abt this abroad thing?

Posted: at 2-03-2011 07:41 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Since she's comfortable, it means she can afford to travel anytime....if she believes there's hope in her relationship with the guy, I think she should stay and give it a try....going abroad is not the ultimate....she needs to settle down and build her own family....but it's her choice ultimately.

Posted: at 2-03-2011 09:20 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac