Causes of Broken Relationships

Date: 28-02-2011 5:36 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Pholake
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- at 28-02-2011 05:36 PM (13 years ago)
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I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........


•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.

•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.

•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.

•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than

Posted: at 28-02-2011 05:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Youngstoriez at 28-02-2011 05:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Got it...thnxxxxxxx so much for sharing it!! Smiley Wink
Posted: at 28-02-2011 05:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pholake at 28-02-2011 05:48 PM (13 years ago)
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U're welcome dear......
Posted: at 28-02-2011 05:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 28-02-2011 05:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 28-02-2011 05:36 PM
I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........


•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.

•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.

•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.

•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than



the much over-looked is the highlighted, but does terrible havoc.
Posted: at 28-02-2011 05:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Mma4life at 28-02-2011 10:49 PM (13 years ago)
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okeeeeeeeeeee..... We done lean. Tanks 4 sharing
Posted: at 28-02-2011 10:49 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- yukicares4u at 28-02-2011 10:55 PM (13 years ago)
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OK  Cheesy
Posted: at 28-02-2011 10:55 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 28-02-2011 11:24 PM (13 years ago)
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da

Posted: at 28-02-2011 11:24 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- DonRanco at 28-02-2011 11:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Thanks for the info, and I think I like this!
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- dirtykid at 1-03-2011 12:41 AM (13 years ago)
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 Cool Cool

Posted: at 1-03-2011 12:41 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 1-03-2011 12:44 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 28-02-2011 05:36 PM
I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........


•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.

•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.

•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.

•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than

nice one..

Posted: at 1-03-2011 12:44 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sugaDaddy1forU at 1-03-2011 12:48 AM (13 years ago)
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 Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool Cool

Posted: at 1-03-2011 12:48 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Eddie71 at 1-03-2011 12:52 AM (13 years ago)
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Nice research, keep it up.
Posted: at 1-03-2011 12:52 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Fashalyn at 1-03-2011 01:41 AM (13 years ago)
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Gud one, 10ks for sharing!

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- eomo at 1-03-2011 01:43 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 28-02-2011 05:36 PM
I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........


•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.

•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.

•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.

•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than

There is this old saying of a woman who went to an elderly man to complain that her husband beat her every time. The elderly man sensed that the cause of her beating was her words. The old man told her to wait for him to get her a medicine that will stop the beating. The old man gave her a cowry and told her to put the cowry in her mouth immediately an argument is about to start. He told her she must not say a word once the cowry is in her mouth because if the cowry falls then she will get more beating that she may loose her life. She followed the old man's word to the letter and there was no more beating that even the husband was shocked that his wife becomes very quiet when there is an argument. He called his wife one day and asked what the secret was and she opened up to the husband. Both of them went to the old man and he told them that there was nothing to the cowry. She stopped using the cowry and realised that her bad mouth was the cause of her beating. She learned to be quiet and they lived happily together.
Posted: at 1-03-2011 01:43 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- rational at 1-03-2011 07:00 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: eomo on  1-03-2011 01:43 AM
Quote from: pholake on 28-02-2011 05:36 PM
I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........


•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.

•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.

•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.

•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than

There is this old saying of a woman who went to an elderly man to complain that her husband beat her every time. The elderly man sensed that the cause of her beating was her words. The old man told her to wait for him to get her a medicine that will stop the beating. The old man gave her a cowry and told her to put the cowry in her mouth immediately an argument is about to start. He told her she must not say a word once the cowry is in her mouth because if the cowry falls then she will get more beating that she may loose her life. She followed the old man's word to the letter and there was no more beating that even the husband was shocked that his wife becomes very quiet when there is an argument. He called his wife one day and asked what the secret was and she opened up to the husband. Both of them went to the old man and he told them that there was nothing to the cowry. She stopped using the cowry and realised that her bad mouth was the cause of her beating. She learned to be quiet and they lived happily together.good school of thought
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- ashimole at 1-03-2011 07:28 AM (13 years ago)
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that is a very 9ice one @ poster.
just passing anyway.
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- princess4jifs at 1-03-2011 07:36 AM (13 years ago)
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thanks,"fabulous" best described.
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- Youngstoriez at 1-03-2011 09:12 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: eomo on  1-03-2011 01:43 AM
Quote from: pholake on 28-02-2011 05:36 PM
I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........


•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.

•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.

•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.

•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than

There is this old saying of a woman who went to an elderly man to complain that her husband beat her every time. The elderly man sensed that the cause of her beating was her words. The old man told her to wait for him to get her a medicine that will stop the beating. The old man gave her a cowry and told her to put the cowry in her mouth immediately an argument is about to start. He told her she must not say a word once the cowry is in her mouth because if the cowry falls then she will get more beating that she may loose her life. She followed the old man's word to the letter and there was no more beating that even the husband was shocked that his wife becomes very quiet when there is an argument. He called his wife one day and asked what the secret was and she opened up to the husband. Both of them went to the old man and he told them that there was nothing to the cowry. She stopped using the cowry and realised that her bad mouth was the cause of her beating. She learned to be quiet and they lived happily together.
LOLOLOL.... Grin Grin Grin Smiley Smiley Smiley Wink Wink.....NICE ONE
Posted: at 1-03-2011 09:12 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pholake at 1-03-2011 09:36 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: eomo on  1-03-2011 01:43 AM
Quote from: pholake on 28-02-2011 05:36 PM
I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........


•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.

•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.

•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.

•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than

There is this old saying of a woman who went to an elderly man to complain that her husband beat her every time. The elderly man sensed that the cause of her beating was her words. The old man told her to wait for him to get her a medicine that will stop the beating. The old man gave her a cowry and told her to put the cowry in her mouth immediately an argument is about to start. He told her she must not say a word once the cowry is in her mouth because if the cowry falls then she will get more beating that she may loose her life. She followed the old man's word to the letter and there was no more beating that even the husband was shocked that his wife becomes very quiet when there is an argument. He called his wife one day and asked what the secret was and she opened up to the husband. Both of them went to the old man and he told them that there was nothing to the cowry. She stopped using the cowry and realised that her bad mouth was the cause of her beating. She learned to be quiet and they lived happily together.
What a great lesson!
Posted: at 1-03-2011 09:36 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 1-03-2011 09:44 AM (13 years ago)
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hmmm!! learn, jotted and passed
Posted: at 1-03-2011 09:44 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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