KEEPING DIARIES: IS IT ADVISABLE?

Date: 29-07-2010 12:49 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- at 29-07-2010 12:49 PM (13 years ago)
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The stories that I have been hearing about how the secrets contained in these diaries are destroying relationships are becoming rampant.  So why do people keep diaries? Is it advisable to keep a tab on the happenings in one's life, especially when such information could be so damning and the other party may not understand?  If you find an unpalatable piece of information in your partner's diary, would you believe the explanation given to defend such information?  Would you allow any ugly incident as written in your partner's diary destroy your relationship?............

Oya, lets go there!


Posted: at 29-07-2010 12:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
- onyiis at 29-07-2010 12:51 PM (13 years ago)
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i have diaries but there is no way what i put down there could cause problem .

Posted: at 29-07-2010 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 29-07-2010 12:59 PM (13 years ago)
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well, some people's diary do cause problem for them

Posted: at 29-07-2010 12:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 29-07-2010 01:05 PM (13 years ago)
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since u could do anything with ur phone these days diary is not
rampard anymore except for the fact some peeps use them as note pad
Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 29-07-2010 01:06 PM (13 years ago)
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So what do they wrute inside that cause problem ? maybe the number of men they slept with or other crimes committed ?

Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 29-07-2010 01:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Yesterday a lady was asking for advice because what she wrote in her diary when she was still single was causing a big problem in her marriage becos her hubby happened on it.....she was fond of writing everything dat happened to her each day..........

Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 29-07-2010 01:32 PM (13 years ago)
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Well sounds strange to be because i on't see sence in writting down everything , Some things are better kept in the heart than on papers

Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 29-07-2010 01:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Sure............but some people dont know where to draw the line.........while some people refuse to see that everyone has got a past!

Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 29-07-2010 01:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Personal Choice

Diaries Help yu know/remember where yu're Coming from and Guide yur Steps, and they're fun 2 read too once in a While

Personal Choice girl

If yu're Confident in who yu've become, then people reading it won't bother yu

Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:44 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 29-07-2010 01:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 29-07-2010 12:51 PM
i have diaries but there is no way what i put down there could cause problem .

Bring am make l read am

Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:45 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- tsin at 29-07-2010 01:46 PM (13 years ago)
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i dont av ani to start wit. but i hear its gud sha

Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:46 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bittersweet at 29-07-2010 01:52 PM (13 years ago)
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I don't like this thing about keeping a diary!
I tried to do that when I was around 17,but it seemed so foolish ,and I've throw it away!
So, no diary again for me!
But it's very possible to write the story of my life later!
 Anyway, if my guy would keep one, and I would find it,I would read it only if he wants me to!

Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 29-07-2010 01:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 29-07-2010 01:44 PM
Personal Choice

Diaries Help yu know/remember where yu're Coming from and Guide yur Steps, and they're fun 2 read too once in a While

Personal Choice girl

If yu're Confident in who yu've become, then people reading it won't bother yu

heeeeeeeeeeeeeee, uncle Kennee, the question is, would the other person be man/woman enough to take the content in good faith?...wouldnt he/she condemn this other person as a result of what he/she has seen?...........

Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 29-07-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago)
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its very very gud.. but i dash my own out

Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 29-07-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 29-07-2010 01:45 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 29-07-2010 12:51 PM
i have diaries but there is no way what i put down there could cause problem .

Bring am make l read am
y u wan read her own
am jeolous oo
Posted: at 29-07-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 29-07-2010 02:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 29-07-2010 01:57 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 29-07-2010 01:45 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 29-07-2010 12:51 PM
i have diaries but there is no way what i put down there could cause problem .

Bring am make l read am
y u wan read her own
am jeolous oo

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin She say no Secret dey inside, so l wan find out na  Smiley

Posted: at 29-07-2010 02:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 29-07-2010 02:00 PM (13 years ago)
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i used to have one b4 but when the guy i was dating then
found out and read it, it generated a lot of problems in that
relationship and since then bye bye to dairy
Posted: at 29-07-2010 02:00 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 29-07-2010 02:00 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmmmm

Posted: at 29-07-2010 02:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blessedme at 29-07-2010 02:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 29-07-2010 02:00 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 29-07-2010 01:57 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 29-07-2010 01:45 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 29-07-2010 12:51 PM
i have diaries but there is no way what i put down there could cause problem .

Bring am make l read am
y u wan read her own
am jeolous oo

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin She say no Secret dey inside, so l wan find out na  Smiley
leave her own alone and come and read ma own
Posted: at 29-07-2010 02:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 29-07-2010 02:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 29-07-2010 01:54 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 29-07-2010 01:44 PM
Personal Choice

Diaries Help yu know/remember where yu're Coming from and Guide yur Steps, and they're fun 2 read too once in a While

Personal Choice girl

If yu're Confident in who yu've become, then people reading it won't bother yu

heeeeeeeeeeeeeee, uncle Kennee, the question is, would the other person be man/woman enough to take the content in good faith?...wouldnt he/she condemn this other person as a result of what he/she has seen?...........

Yeah some Poeple don't take things Kindly when they read it cos sometimes the things they find inside seem to be repeating themselves in the Present relationship

l get yu. Dat's why l said if yu're Confident about who yu've become, yu will be able 2 make yur Partner feel better about it and put it all in the Past

Posted: at 29-07-2010 02:03 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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