Women keeping their maiden names after marriage (Direspectful?)

Date: 23-03-2010 8:25 am (14 years ago) | Author: albert blessing omohere
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- at 23-03-2010 08:25 AM (14 years ago)
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I and my friend was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?

Posted: at 23-03-2010 08:25 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
- Ify4life at 23-03-2010 10:17 AM (14 years ago)
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U CAN CHANGE IT.IT WILL ALWAY B LIKE DAT

Posted: at 23-03-2010 10:17 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Mmalerato at 23-03-2010 11:14 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: omohere on 23-03-2010 08:25 AM
I friend & i was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?

A woman is not a man's commodity and is NOT owned by a MAN!!. A woman belongs to herself and maybe God (If they believe in God). What's in a surname? Do I marry him or his name. His kids can bear his surname... Met tend to overrate this surname nonsense.. I will definitely keep my maiden surname..If needs be, I can have a double barrel surname.
Posted: at 23-03-2010 11:14 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- famous5 at 23-03-2010 12:29 PM (14 years ago)
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 Huh?
Posted: at 23-03-2010 12:29 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 23-03-2010 12:41 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Mmalerato on 23-03-2010 11:14 AM
Quote from: omohere on 23-03-2010 08:25 AM
I friend & i was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?

A woman is not a man's commodity and is NOT owned by a MAN!!. A woman belongs to herself and maybe God (If they believe in God). What's in a surname? Do I marry him or his name. His kids can bear his surname... Met tend to overrate this surname nonsense.. I will definitely keep my maiden surname..If needs be, I can have a double barrel surname.

 Smiley

Posted: at 23-03-2010 12:41 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- omohere at 23-03-2010 02:25 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Mmalerato on 23-03-2010 11:14 AM
Quote from: omohere on 23-03-2010 08:25 AM
I friend & i was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?

A woman is not a man's commodity and is NOT owned by a MAN!!. A woman belongs to herself and maybe God (If they believe in God). What's in a surname? Do I marry him or his name. His kids can bear his surname... Met tend to overrate this surname nonsense.. I will definitely keep my maiden surname..If needs be, I can have a double barrel surname.
God bless u my sista. After my papa suffer train me, one man go come xpect me 2 throway my papa name. Na lie o.
Posted: at 23-03-2010 02:25 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mercycruise at 24-03-2010 03:05 PM (14 years ago)
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Nothing is bad there, as i am i like my maiden name so crime keeping it.
Posted: at 24-03-2010 03:05 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- divineproject at 24-03-2010 03:16 PM (14 years ago)
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I see nothing wrong in changing from my dad's to my huby's.......

Posted: at 24-03-2010 03:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- megafather1 at 24-03-2010 05:21 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: omohere on 23-03-2010 08:25 AM
I friend & i was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?
Awoman can anwer any name she likes,no big deal.
Posted: at 24-03-2010 05:21 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- enc4life at 26-03-2010 09:14 PM (14 years ago)
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niaja is fast loosin out her cultures, one day wmen go start to dey pay dowry for man head
Posted: at 26-03-2010 09:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mercycruise at 21-03-2011 01:59 PM (13 years ago)
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e go beta nah ...hahahaha
Posted: at 21-03-2011 01:59 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- aisha89 at 21-03-2011 06:54 PM (13 years ago)
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she must been insane for sayin a man owns the wife wat? the wife belong to nobody except her sef alone and GOD

Posted: at 21-03-2011 06:54 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- interpo77 at 21-03-2011 07:04 PM (13 years ago)
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this issue was just treated here last week,in the country like nigeria,the law/culture has elustrated it so wide,
its opter for a woman to change her maiden/surname to her husbands,thats ur new family and where u belong
search  nigerian marital law, chapter 407 article (4)13c,that will help u enough.it is ur right  not force
Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- interpo77 at 21-03-2011 07:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: aisha89 on 21-03-2011 06:54 PM
she must been insane for sayin a man owns the wife wat? the wife belong to nobody except her sef alone and GOD
eyaaaa,its never reach like that na,oya come make i own u Grin
Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- interpo77 at 21-03-2011 07:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 24-03-2010 03:16 PM
I see nothing wrong in changing from my dad's to my huby's.......
gbam,tell them ooh
Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 21-03-2011 07:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Mmalerato on 23-03-2010 11:14 AM
Quote from: omohere on 23-03-2010 08:25 AM
I friend & i was talking this morning and we argued about dis topic. He said it is disrespectful of any wife 2 keep her maiden name after marriage. He said the woman belongs 2 d man & should bear d man's name. What do u guys feel abt dis?

A woman is not a man's commodity and is NOT owned by a MAN!!. A woman belongs to herself and maybe God (If they believe in God). What's in a surname? Do I marry him or his name. His kids can bear his surname... Met tend to overrate this surname nonsense.. I will definitely keep my maiden surname..If needs be, I can have a double barrel surname.
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Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:08 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- abbeyy74 at 21-03-2011 07:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: enc4life on 26-03-2010 09:14 PM
niaja is fast loosin out her cultures, one day wmen go start to dey pay dowry for man head
but already it is the women that pays dowry in the indian community
Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 21-03-2011 07:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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- abbeyy74 at 21-03-2011 07:32 PM (13 years ago)
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this depends on both parties agreement of wheather to change the name or not,even more over the lady can so bi so add her family name again to the husband surname rendering her to two surnames
Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:32 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 21-03-2011 07:35 PM (13 years ago)
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that your friend most be out of his God damn mind to said that

Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:35 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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