1. Don't be too mushy with her on your first date. Sure women love to receive affection from men that care about, but certainly not while they are still trying to get to know you. If you want to do put your hands around her shoulder or neck, you can simply ask her if it is okay for you to do it. If you get the slightest impression that she is not comfortable with the idea, then get your hands off. It certainly does not mean that if she gets to know you a little more as the evening goes on, that she will not let you then. Just behave yourself and be patient.
2. Just don't engage in any bodily noises (passing gas, belching, etc.) to a minimum. You might think that she is comfortable enough with you to forgive this natural part of life, but generally women are disgusted by it, especially when they are just getting to know you.
3. Do not inundate your dinner conversation with talk about you. Sure she wants to get to know you, but when you keep the focus of every conversation on just yourself she starts feeling that you are not interested in her.
4. Never come across as if you are insecure or nervous about being around her. Most women will see this as a sign of weakness. And certainly no woman wants a man that lacks confidence.
5. When you are finished with your date, don't call her on the phone the same night you drop her off at her home unless you want her to feel that you are clingy.
6. Never show up at her home or her job without her invitation. If you do she will start feeling that you are the type of guy that will smother her.
So if you want the woman you are on a date with to still call you then try your best to avoid these blunders. As long as you give her the basic courtesies and you don't do things that make her feel uncomfortable you should be fine. for more isures visit www.smilesparadise.blogspot.com
Posted: at 9-08-2008 12:55 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
When you are finished with your date, don't call her on the phone the same night you drop her off at her home unless you want her to feel that you are clingy.
You should always call to make sure she reached home o.k, thats if u didn't pick her up and u met up instead....but if u did pick her, then u should wait til she goes inside and locks the door. Infact wait atleast 5 minutes before pulling off after she got in...and then call and say good night!......
Posted: at 9-08-2008 01:27 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
philomena87 at 9-08-2008 11:51 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: vixenx on 9-08-2008 01:27 AM
I agree to all but this one:..
When you are finished with your date, don't call her on the phone the same night you drop her off at her home unless you want her to feel that you are clingy.
You should always call to make sure she reached home o.k, thats if u didn't pick her up and u met up instead....but if u did pick her, then u should wait til she goes inside and locks the door. Infact wait atleast 5 minutes before pulling off after she got in...and then call and say good night!......
im really feel u.. tas true...
Posted: at 9-08-2008 11:51 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
darkocean002 at 9-08-2008 02:32 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: openparadise on 9-08-2008 12:55 AM
1. Don't be too mushy with her on your first date. Sure women love to receive affection from men that care about, but certainly not while they are still trying to get to know you. If you want to do put your hands around her shoulder or neck, you can simply ask her if it is okay for you to do it. If you get the slightest impression that she is not comfortable with the idea, then get your hands off. It certainly does not mean that if she gets to know you a little more as the evening goes on, that she will not let you then. Just behave yourself and be patient.
2. Just don't engage in any bodily noises (passing gas, belching, etc.) to a minimum. You might think that she is comfortable enough with you to forgive this natural part of life, but generally women are disgusted by it, especially when they are just getting to know you.
3. Do not inundate your dinner conversation with talk about you. Sure she wants to get to know you, but when you keep the focus of every conversation on just yourself she starts feeling that you are not interested in her.
4. Never come across as if you are insecure or nervous about being around her. Most women will see this as a sign of weakness. And certainly no woman wants a man that lacks confidence.
5. When you are finished with your date, don't call her on the phone the same night you drop her off at her home unless you want her to feel that you are clingy.
6. Never show up at her home or her job without her invitation. If you do she will start feeling that you are the type of guy that will smother her.
So if you want the woman you are on a date with to still call you then try your best to avoid these blunders. As long as you give her the basic courtesies and you don't do things that make her feel uncomfortable you should be fine. for more isures visit www.smilesparadise.blogspot.com
Thanks man for the tips. but i can always call her after the date, just to make sure she's alright and also say somethings i cldnt say inperson.. kinda romantic
Posted: at 9-08-2008 02:32 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
naijainct at 10-08-2008 02:53 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: openparadise on 9-08-2008 12:55 AM
1. Don't be too mushy with her on your first date. Sure women love to receive affection from men that care about, but certainly not while they are still trying to get to know you. If you want to do put your hands around her shoulder or neck, you can simply ask her if it is okay for you to do it. If you get the slightest impression that she is not comfortable with the idea, then get your hands off. It certainly does not mean that if she gets to know you a little more as the evening goes on, that she will not let you then. Just behave yourself and be patient.
2. Just don't engage in any bodily noises (passing gas, belching, etc.) to a minimum. You might think that she is comfortable enough with you to forgive this natural part of life, but generally women are disgusted by it, especially when they are just getting to know you.
3. Do not inundate your dinner conversation with talk about you. Sure she wants to get to know you, but when you keep the focus of every conversation on just yourself she starts feeling that you are not interested in her.
4. Never come across as if you are insecure or nervous about being around her. Most women will see this as a sign of weakness. And certainly no woman wants a man that lacks confidence.
5. When you are finished with your date, don't call her on the phone the same night you drop her off at her home unless you want her to feel that you are clingy.
6. Never show up at her home or her job without her invitation. If you do she will start feeling that you are the type of guy that will smother her.
So if you want the woman you are on a date with to still call you then try your best to avoid these blunders. As long as you give her the basic courtesies and you don't do things that make her feel uncomfortable you should be fine. for more isures visit www.smilesparadise.blogspot.com
I'm kinda old school. Take her to Mr. Biggs and buy her ice cream afterwards take her on a molue ride. She'd love it.
Posted: at 10-08-2008 02:53 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
naijainct at 10-08-2008 03:02 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Kennee on 10-08-2008 02:59 PM
Quote from: naijainct on 10-08-2008 02:53 PM
I'm kinda old school. Take her to Mr. Biggs and buy her ice cream afterwards take her on a molue ride. She'd love it.
LOLLLL, Correct Guy
Do u think its every girl in naija that has the courage to ride molue? I certainly don't think so...........So it'll be my duty to give her a molue treat
Posted: at 10-08-2008 03:02 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
macgreat at 11-08-2008 03:35 PM (15 years ago) (m)
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If you want to do put your hands around her shoulder or neck, you can simply ask her if it is okay for you to do it. If you get the slightest impression that she is not comfortable with the idea, then get your hands off.
That's asking for permission...
asking for permission will make her think you "lacks confidence"
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Posted: at 11-08-2008 03:35 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
If you want to do put your hands around her shoulder or neck, you can simply ask her if it is okay for you to do it. If you get the slightest impression that she is not comfortable with the idea, then get your hands off.
That's asking for permission...
asking for permission will make her think you "lacks confidence"
Depends on the woman,
But what u said makes sense, cos d smart guy will always know what message her body Language is sendin
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE
Posted: at 11-08-2008 07:51 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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