how many kids would u like to have or do u have? whats the best age to have kids? and do u really think a kid needs it that father and mother are together? I think its good if its like that but if the relationship doesnt work out And whats a good age for the kid to get s sister or a bro?
lucychizzy at 18-07-2008 09:47 AM (15 years ago) (f)
well i have two a boy and a gurl,i gave birth to them in my teens(though legally married) i think the presence of the father in the family matters a lot,cos as ladies there some certain things that we over look in our kids. if u check very well you will find out that most kids that misbehave are those whose father weren't around to caution them.
Posted: at 18-07-2008 09:47 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
philomena87 at 18-07-2008 12:31 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Pimpinella on 18-07-2008 01:51 AM
how many kids would u like to have or do u have? whats the best age to have kids? and do u really think a kid needs it that father and mother are together? I think its good if its like that but if the relationship doesnt work out And whats a good age for the kid to get s sister or a bro?
i dont have any kid but will prefer havin from 2-5 max... i prefer havin anytin to do wit sex,marriage or kids from the age of 25.. yea a kid needs tat the both parents should be together... if not he might lack the love from each... cos there's mother's love and care same as fathers.... if the relationship gets broken.. the parent not stayin wit the child needs to visit atleast in a while to stay wit the child.... i think the best age.. is wen he/she is capable of doin things by his/her self.like from the age of 5/6 upwards.... u know ppl get jealous wen someone gives more attention to another.. talkless of the kids..
Posted: at 18-07-2008 12:31 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
how many kids would u like to have or do u have?--I've got one n dats it
whats the best age to have kids?..I had my son at the age of 21
and do u really think a kid needs it that father and mother are together? ..well it helps, but u can't remain in a relationship just for the sake of the kids...maybe when they're still a baby, but once they've grown a lil, then they're able to know who u are, and u can no longer try to stick with the father or mom for their sakes.
I think its good if its like that but if the relationship doesnt work out ...then it doesn't..u can't really force things like that..
And whats a good age for the kid to get s sister or a bro?...I would say when the child is like 10 or so..but thats it for me..lol
Posted: at 19-07-2008 04:38 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Buddyflex at 19-07-2008 04:58 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Na God dey give pikin, but money will give you kids. As for a man in the house, how many real men are in the world today? most young men don't know or understand what it means to be a father. I say you should work with whatever life gives you, ca sara sara.
Posted: at 19-07-2008 04:58 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
well i have two a boy and a gurl,i gave birth to them in my teens(though legally married) i think the presence of the father in the family matters a lot,cos as ladies there some certain things that we over look in our kids. if u check very well you will find out that most kids that misbehave are those whose father weren't around to caution them.
u r right,chizzy.
Posted: at 20-07-2008 08:09 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
how many kids would u like to have or do u have? whats the best age to have kids? and do u really think a kid needs it that father and mother are together? I think its good if its like that but if the relationship doesnt work out And whats a good age for the kid to get s sister or a bro?
i wil lik to hv 5 or 6 kids,cos i lik full house. i wil lik to hv ma kids in my early or mid 20's(depends when i get married).i think kids needs both parent,cos being a single parent is not an easy job.,and just one parent can't fulfil the emotional needs of the kids. i think the age gap shuld be 2yrs.
Posted: at 20-07-2008 08:24 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
how many kids would u like to have or do u have? whats the best age to have kids? and do u really think a kid needs it that father and mother are together? I think its good if its like that but if the relationship doesnt work out And whats a good age for the kid to get s sister or a bro?
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how many kids would u like to have or do u have?~~ 6 whats the best age to have kids?~~ 21-28 and do u really think a kid needs it that father and mother are together? ~~ yea And whats a good age for the kid to get s sister or a bro~~~ 2-3
Posted: at 20-07-2008 08:44 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
chikamama at 20-07-2008 09:24 AM (15 years ago) (f)
I have one Daughter and I'm no more with the father. i still wanna have 2 children, 3 is the limit of having children for me. Of course it is better to stay with the father, but if u see that the relationship is going to break, is better to be friends than to hate each other for the child.
Posted: at 20-07-2008 09:24 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Thats what i think too..it doesn't make sense to remain in an unhealthy relationship just for the kids. First, it won't be an honest one cuz ya'll probably gonna be messing around outside of the relationship..secondly, the kids are gonna see mommy and daddy argue and fight all the time..which isn't good for them either. like i previously said...I can see trying to put up with it while the kids are still babies..but once they've grown and know who u are, i don't think its necessary sticking around just for their sakes and not love..it will never work.
Posted: at 20-07-2008 09:59 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Buddyflex at 20-07-2008 10:37 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Much love to all the babymamas in the house, just want y'all to know the world today has made room for you to hold your heads up high and stand tall, y'all don't have to take no more drama from all them boys2men wannabes who don't know what it means to be a father and the man of the house; it takes more than money and a hot rod to be a man for real. wish y'all better luck next time!!!
Posted: at 20-07-2008 10:37 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Pimpinella at 20-07-2008 11:37 AM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: chikamama on 20-07-2008 09:24 AM
I have one Daughter and I'm no more with the father. i still wanna have 2 children, 3 is the limit of having children for me. Of course it is better to stay with the father, but if u see that the relationship is going to break, is better to be friends than to hate each other for the child.
yeah i think so too,... Im thinking to get a second baby bec im allready 27!! and i have only one kid Im still friend with the fathers baby our relationship break after 6 years but thats allright the way it is
so now my wish is just to get a baby without a father - I mean if he want he can care but if he dont want he dont need to,.. I know that seems crazy,...
Much love to all the babymamas in the house, just want y'all to know the world today has made room for you to hold your heads up high and stand tall, y'all don't have to take no more drama from all them boys2men wannabes who don't know what it means to be a father and the man of the house; it takes more than money and a hot rod to be a man for real. wish y'all better luck next time!!!
Thats really nice.........................But my baby daddy i give him props though, so i can't really place him with all those no good baby daddies..he's always with our son ..infact sometimes i had to beg for him to bring him home to me cuz he will keep him for months in a row..lol...and not only that, he's always there for when i need him too...i was able to go to school and make something of my self while he stayed with him, and even when i go to work...he stays with him and don't want me to come get him until i've had my sleep and well rested..so i always recognize him on father's day for that...he's a great father...just got those annoying ways i can't stand...lol
Posted: at 21-07-2008 01:31 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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