I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt.
I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father.
My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas.
I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague.
It was 30 minutes of madness. whta do ya 'll think?
Posted: at 3-09-2009 05:50 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
erikaakpan at 3-09-2009 07:34 AM (14 years ago) (f)
please find the courage to tell him.....knowing there is a possibility that he isnt the father will leave a guilty conscious and you dnt want to live like that....things like this have a way of coming back to bite u in the ass...
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Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:34 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
duh.......... girl, i don't know what to tell u. u get get a paternity test to see who the father is. get a dna test. hurry up cuz ur running out of time and options. cuz u can't have a baby looking like ur co worker
Posted: at 3-09-2009 07:56 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
In 3 words, I'D say - Tell Your Husband. It's not gonna be fun doing so . . . .Might even cost You Your marriage but Actions and corollaries are part of the things human existence is centered upon. Nuthing is as good as inner Peace and a clear conscience. The Choice is Yours.
SSCE, BSC, ABS, ADN, AAS, AAGS, PHD, MASTERS....I'm Qualified, So Shut Up And Listen .
Posted: at 3-09-2009 10:33 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I'm pregnant and should be jumping for joy because my husband and I have wanted a baby for ages but there's this niggling doubt.
I cheated on my husband and I'm terrified the other man is the father.
My husband's in the Navy and it happened the day after he'd gone back overseas.
I'd been out after work celebrating a birthday, got drunk and ended up in bed with a work colleague.
It was 30 minutes of madness. whta do ya 'll think?
Ur lucky I dont know Ur husband. I'd have helped U help the devil ruin Ur marriage straight. U got drunk? U never talk true cos U seem to remember the 30mins of madness clearly enough; meaning even if U were drunk U knew exactly what U were doing? I bet this wasn't one random colleague at work but that one U had nursed feelings for.
I hate girls like U. better handle Ur sh*t, shameless thing.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 11:29 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
damn yawa don gas this ur case is a serious one. since you are sure the baby is not for your husband..tell your husband about the situation,i know is not gonna be easy...but is better you tell the truth to clear your consciene..it may cast you your marriage...i can't advise you to do abortion,,abortion is wrong...since the life of an unborn child is precious in God's eyes.....tell him to hear his own side....he may tell you to keep the baby..
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 11:42 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
All the people saying to tell him, what una want make woman kill man abi make man kill woman?
Keep it to Urself and feel Ur conscience kill U sloooooowwwwly. I hope Ur husband loves U more than U expect in his blissful ignorance. That way Ur death would be slower and more painful. Imagine every agonising day U'l have seeing the child and being loved by the man U wronged.
Ur seriously lucky I dont know Ur husband o. I'd have made it my business to add to Ur pain... unless of course he chooses to forgive U.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 12:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
All the people saying to tell him, what una want make woman kill man abi make man kill woman?
Keep it to Urself and feel Ur conscience kill U sloooooowwwwly. I hope Ur husband loves U more than U expect in his blissful ignorance. That way Ur death would be slower and more painful. Imagine every agonising day U'l have seeing the child and being loved by the man U wronged.
Ur seriously lucky I dont know Ur husband o. I'd have made it my business to add to Ur pain... unless of course he chooses to forgive U.
bros don vex..... ;Dabeg do take it easy with her....adding more pain to her problem
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 3-09-2009 12:19 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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