How do u overcome shyness around girls?

Date: 28-03-2009 11:25 pm (15 years ago) | Author: kelv osiobe
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- at 28-03-2009 11:25 PM (15 years ago)
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Hi.can somebody tell me how to be confident around girls.am kind of suffering from shyness syndrome

Posted: at 28-03-2009 11:25 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- Beauti4 at 30-03-2009 02:45 AM (15 years ago)
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man how many time u wan post?
Posted: at 30-03-2009 02:45 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 30-03-2009 03:25 PM (15 years ago)
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Find something Ur good at. bring the grl into Ur reality!
Everyone has a comfort zone where there's no shyness or timidity. Identify Urs and take the girl into it.
Posted: at 30-03-2009 03:25 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- vivian07 at 30-03-2009 03:30 PM (15 years ago)
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there must be some thing that makes u feel shy.
but come to think of it, how old are u ?
Posted: at 30-03-2009 03:30 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Pires07 at 30-03-2009 03:56 PM (15 years ago)
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Low self esteme. Infiriority complex is one major factor u've got 2 overcome, yeah breaking d ice is not an easy step, but ur ability 2 take a bold step 'nd initiate a reasonable conversation gives u an upper hand. girls dnt like shy guys talk less bringing up boring stories dat dnt interest them. Stop feeling infirior whenever u re around them, initiate interesting conversation, not conversation dat got 2 do wif vide0 games or foothball.

Posted: at 30-03-2009 03:56 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- patienceudosen at 30-03-2009 04:59 PM (15 years ago)
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 Meditatng.
ask Mazi co's he just won an award in human psychology
Posted: at 30-03-2009 04:59 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Dguy at 30-03-2009 05:26 PM (15 years ago)
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Strange condition - as a man you should be naturally attracted to talk and interact with ladies

Posted: at 30-03-2009 05:26 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- meczytimber at 30-03-2009 06:04 PM (15 years ago)
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Hey young man. You dont ve 2 b shy. Try n relate wel wit d people u re familiar wit. Maybe ur family.then ur cousin, from there ur girl friend if u ve n if u dont ur female family members shd help u get used to female.
Student, did u hear me?
lol. I was joking... Just follow it step by step u ll get there.
If u ve any question mail me.
Good luck

Posted: at 30-03-2009 06:04 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Aarelomo at 30-03-2009 08:40 PM (15 years ago)
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My guy no mind them oooo. Abeg, they put on glasses maybe that will reduce you shyness...
Posted: at 30-03-2009 08:40 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- herdeysohjy at 30-03-2009 08:56 PM (15 years ago)
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shyness, u just have to be bold cos they are human beings like u
Posted: at 30-03-2009 08:56 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Danitotropsy at 30-03-2009 09:06 PM (15 years ago)
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Guy ur problem is common amoung guyz around the age of 15 to 19 so if u re within that age don't panic if nt i wil advice u to mingle with dem and don't b afriad bcos most of them re just physicaly big but smal in mind(thinkin).u wil knw al this things if u get closer.

Posted: at 30-03-2009 09:06 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- nigerianlove at 31-03-2009 02:18 AM (15 years ago)
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hmjust b urself, have alot of female friends and start off with naija pals by talking to the grls u will get use to it, n lk go around introduce yrself to radom grls
Posted: at 31-03-2009 02:18 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- diplomatik at 31-03-2009 03:11 AM (15 years ago)
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just be urself.....let the real u come out..let it flow....u'll be ok

Posted: at 31-03-2009 03:11 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- eagleseyez at 31-03-2009 03:17 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Pires07 on 30-03-2009 03:56 PM
Low self esteme. Infiriority complex is one major factor u've got 2 overcome, yeah breaking d ice is not an easy step, but ur ability 2 take a bold step 'nd initiate a reasonable conversation gives u an upper hand. girls dnt like shy guys talk less bringing up boring stories dat dnt interest them. Stop feeling infirior whenever u re around them, initiate interesting conversation, not conversation dat got 2 do wif vide0 games or foothball.




well spoken Pires
splendid one
Posted: at 31-03-2009 03:17 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Chixom at 31-03-2009 03:51 AM (15 years ago)
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With d little xperience i've had wit females, i think they like jovial, outspoken nd confident guyz. So the key 2 eliminate shyness is within u. Just have it in mind dat wit ur current state u won't be getting what u want. Remember the alpha male is alwayz confident of himself, and try 2 restructure ur inner man into being the alpha male. Its psychological so it takes time and practice. If have questions just hola.
Posted: at 31-03-2009 03:51 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kenny77 at 31-03-2009 07:34 AM (15 years ago)
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Always be calm when ever you  are with them and alway :)s make sure that ur confindence is at the peak cus those ladies out there does not like somebody who is not confindent who his self.[/color]
Posted: at 31-03-2009 07:34 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- myragonza at 31-03-2009 07:37 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: kelvizzle on 28-03-2009 11:25 PM
Hi.can somebody tell me how to be confident around girls.am kind of suffering from shyness syndrome



be urself!!!

Posted: at 31-03-2009 07:37 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- shadzie at 31-03-2009 09:25 AM (15 years ago)
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lol..it happens.
jst talk more..talk bout things dat interest u..share wiv girls ur strenghts n weaknesses..girls like strong men but we r all human so a little emotion is allowed.
Man Up tho..Confidence takes time to build.
Posted: at 31-03-2009 09:25 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- rbest at 31-03-2009 09:34 AM (15 years ago)
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oyibo
Posted: at 31-03-2009 09:34 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- lancybrown at 31-03-2009 10:18 AM (15 years ago)
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guy you are the one that we determine by your selfKiss  Smiley
Posted: at 31-03-2009 10:18 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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