Find something Ur good at. bring the grl into Ur reality! Everyone has a comfort zone where there's no shyness or timidity. Identify Urs and take the girl into it.
Posted: at 30-03-2009 03:25 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
Low self esteme. Infiriority complex is one major factor u've got 2 overcome, yeah breaking d ice is not an easy step, but ur ability 2 take a bold step 'nd initiate a reasonable conversation gives u an upper hand. girls dnt like shy guys talk less bringing up boring stories dat dnt interest them. Stop feeling infirior whenever u re around them, initiate interesting conversation, not conversation dat got 2 do wif vide0 games or foothball.
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
Posted: at 30-03-2009 03:56 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
meczytimber at 30-03-2009 06:04 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Hey young man. You dont ve 2 b shy. Try n relate wel wit d people u re familiar wit. Maybe ur family.then ur cousin, from there ur girl friend if u ve n if u dont ur female family members shd help u get used to female. Student, did u hear me? lol. I was joking... Just follow it step by step u ll get there. If u ve any question mail me. Good luck
this is meczy.u shd always expect the ....
Posted: at 30-03-2009 06:04 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Danitotropsy at 30-03-2009 09:06 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Guy ur problem is common amoung guyz around the age of 15 to 19 so if u re within that age don't panic if nt i wil advice u to mingle with dem and don't b afriad bcos most of them re just physicaly big but smal in mind(thinkin).u wil knw al this things if u get closer.
All gud thingz in life re free...........
Posted: at 30-03-2009 09:06 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
nigerianlove at 31-03-2009 02:18 AM (15 years ago) (m)
hmjust b urself, have alot of female friends and start off with naija pals by talking to the grls u will get use to it, n lk go around introduce yrself to radom grls
Posted: at 31-03-2009 02:18 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
diplomatik at 31-03-2009 03:11 AM (15 years ago) (f)
just be urself.....let the real u come out..let it flow....u'll be ok
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 31-03-2009 03:11 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
eagleseyez at 31-03-2009 03:17 AM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Pires07 on 30-03-2009 03:56 PM
Low self esteme. Infiriority complex is one major factor u've got 2 overcome, yeah breaking d ice is not an easy step, but ur ability 2 take a bold step 'nd initiate a reasonable conversation gives u an upper hand. girls dnt like shy guys talk less bringing up boring stories dat dnt interest them. Stop feeling infirior whenever u re around them, initiate interesting conversation, not conversation dat got 2 do wif vide0 games or foothball.
well spoken Pires splendid one
Posted: at 31-03-2009 03:17 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
With d little xperience i've had wit females, i think they like jovial, outspoken nd confident guyz. So the key 2 eliminate shyness is within u. Just have it in mind dat wit ur current state u won't be getting what u want. Remember the alpha male is alwayz confident of himself, and try 2 restructure ur inner man into being the alpha male. Its psychological so it takes time and practice. If have questions just hola.
Posted: at 31-03-2009 03:51 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Always be calm when ever you are with them and alway :)s make sure that ur confindence is at the peak cus those ladies out there does not like somebody who is not confindent who his self.[/color]
Posted: at 31-03-2009 07:34 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
lol..it happens. jst talk more..talk bout things dat interest u..share wiv girls ur strenghts n weaknesses..girls like strong men but we r all human so a little emotion is allowed. Man Up tho..Confidence takes time to build.
Posted: at 31-03-2009 09:25 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie