For everyone in a love relationship, d first question u should ask yourself is that y am i in this relationship. Then is there anything good im benefiting from it and is my partner also benefitting from the relationship. Every relationship is like a two sided coin which cannot be seperated.
Do u have any plans for the future of d relationship u are in now or ure are just in there.Any relationship with no aim of ending 2geda should be re-defined.
If u notice ur closeness 2 an opposite sex for a long time nd he/she is not bringing up the issue of dating or courting and u feel there is something going on between u guys, pls dont hesitate to ask the fellow to know wats up so that u wont be dissapointed at the end of the day. Happy new year 2 u!