Am a bit scared to have sex. At first I thought my abstinence was as a result of my decency but I realised it is actually motivated by fear. I fear the moment I have sexual intetcourse, I might lose some good fortune or favour.... Read (3)

I am going to restrict my 15 year old daughter' s phone usage to once a week. What is the most effective way to convince her that she doesn' t need to use the phone?... Read (3)

My girlfriend is very very silly, I rented that apartment for her before I lost my job, I bought everything in that house, I was leaving in my company apartment so when I was sacked they took everything including my car cause I had no personal car of my own then I had to put up with my girlfriend for the time and her attitude has been so shitty, can you believe this girl asked me to wash plate and clean the house when she is off to work ,and if I don’t she will nag and give me the insults of m... Read (11)

hello guys I need some assistance/suggestion . so I met a girl some 2years ago, hardly knew her but got her pregnant. Since I really don’t know her much but knows she isn’t financially buoyant so was scared of accepting her and presenting her to the rest of the family. Then I made a promise to her that I will back her up especially in her academics both university and completion of her professional degree (she wasn’t in the university then but doing some professional course). So I did, I as... Read (3)

I didn't ask to be created, and I think it's quite unfair to bring people into the world without their consent. I have no desire to continue living. Nothing interests me... This world is shit!... Read (7)

Why do most men take good, hardworking ladies for granted? ...Here’s my story, I’d be 26 in a few days. there’s this guy I’ve been seeing for a while, he’s in the states and I’m back here in Nig, we have been together before he traveled, we’ve always been on and off, he’d just disappear and reappear anytime he see me doing pretty well for myself. I run an online store, I’m more introverted and I have just few friends. So recently things weren’t going quite well and my phone c... Read (7)

I no longer feel the need to be alive. I don't plan on ending my life, but I just don't see the point of being here on earth. So much pain and mystery. Yet, to what end? Life's a curse!... Read (5)

I just have a few questions that are bothering me. I met this guy through his mother. Actually the mom is my mom' s friend. She collected my number from me and gave to her son. We have been communicating for going to two years now. He wants to marry me. He will be 31 yr old and I will be 21 this year . He is nice matured and very comfortable and he really pets me. I have been avoiding him since we started communication, not wanting to meet him, because I told him am not ready to marry cos am... Read (7)

is it my duty as a wife to dress the bed ? Because my husband is beginning to get on my nerves, he is getting me so mad and if I react it can be bloody . Every time he wakes up he leave me to dress the bed and he will just go to work , I am tired of doing it because I work too not like I am not busy or jobless this is becoming a crazy habit .so today I intentionally refused to dress the bed and we just got back from work, the next thing he did was call me lazy and started throwing out the sheets... Read (6)

good evening, I really need your help urgently in making a decision. I recently left a relationship and I have decided to give myself some time before I get into a new one. Not long after, I met this guy who came off to be a very gentleman who lived for and loved God. He spoke to me about relationships and dating and that he really needed to be in a relationship with me and I told him truthfully that I wasn' t ready to start this whole thing again. We became friends I started visiting him at... Read (5)