am a man with good sense of humour, love and caring, open minded, generous, someone who knows what they like, sexy. outward & inward, somone who thrives on desire, kinkiness, experimentation, thoughtfulness of the sublime moment of rapture, doesn' t moan, whinge, whine about life, just gets on with it and lives for today as tomorrow is a distant thought. I am happy to a point. just need something new, sexy, fresh & exciting. Catch my drift? This is not about me, its about us, our illicit enc