i do not understand why men are strong outside (or pretend to be) and very soft inside. y not both Share on NP
i tink men most especially african re very very soft. but dey believe in dis concept that for a man to cry or show affection to his loved one outside(like kisses, saying ' i lov u' or ' i miss u' ) means u re a sisi' s. dey do not knw it hurts more to keep it inside dan letting