Good day pals, pls i need your opinion in clearing or finding some answers to my worries. I got engaged by my fiance a week after his birthday June this year. i accepted the engagement ring cos it was a surprise to me. My worries are
1. he has no job currrently though he is a graduate but huzzle. 2. He has no house of his own, squatting with his relative n now he is on the verge of moving out to another friend house. 3. I havent met his parent, he insisted i get pregnant for him b4 we go to his parent so he can be very sure. Though he has took me to some relative of his, when i found out why he said he has done introduction with a girl before who upon sponsoring her traveling out she married someone else over there. (4). what is giving me further headache now is that he is processing is travelling out and all the money he gets, he channel it towards that cause, when i spoke with him he said, that wont affect us as he is doing all that for my sake that i would join him later on if his travelling plans work out. (5) i really feel the need to settle down asap even though he engages me am not seeing is readiness to settle down or plans. (6) He said i should get pregnant for him before anything. Pals am scared cos considering everything i wrote above. No house, no job, always no money, but planning to travel out. (7) when we talk most time, he normally talk about if i cant get pregnant for him if someone else do then is my fault. (8) He is a weak christian (9) Tells me most of is escapades but i just pretend am not paranoid, how can i get him to be more focused? Please i need ur candid advise. Less i forget i work, but i cant carry it all alone, He is the man. Thanks.