Fellow Pals pls help me, am dying slowly.
I am just a fresh university graduate of 27yrs, jst last yr dat i finishd frm youth service. I met dis woman in a private sch., i teach n she's also a graduate teachin in d same sch.
I didnt mean 2 marry her bt 4 frndship bcos she's 5yrs advanced dan me and each tym i luk at her face i feel so much discourage 2 propose 2 her as she always wantd and nearly forcing me 2 do so. And it hapens dat we're stayin 2geda.
So, my sista who stays at Benin brot a man she wants 2 marry, she slept in my place at town, so, she now kw dis my woman and invitd her 2 com wit me 2 d village 4 her T.M. We went, afta d T.M as we reachd town, my parents calld me on phone dat i shud report at village. I went, on reachin dey, my parents askd me who was d woman i brot, dat our family members who attended my sista's TM were crying dat am finishd 4 movin wit dat kind of woman.
My parents also complain d same thing. To d extend dat my fada swear dat he dnt want 2 see me wit d woman again in his compound. I cudnt say anything tangible bcos i equally feel same.
But since she's d one payin our houz rent and feed me, am confused b/c i fear 2 hurt her feelings. Her moda is riched, she always luvs n cares 4 me jst as her daughter does, yet stil i dnt want 2 marry her daughter as she's anticipatin. I must confess dat dis my woman is gud in evry oda thing, bt d problem lies on age, datz why i dnt want her 4 marriage. Pls, how do i do?...all my frnds n neigbours also talk abt dis her age mata. I always cried why life hav taken me dis way, pls, drop wat eva God put in ur mind 2 advice me n God will bless u, IJN, amen.