Hi Everyone
i need some serious advise am in a relationship of about 5 years now, with 2 beautiful girls.but the problem is am not happy cos i found out my man is got a child out with his long time girl friend.when i first found out he pleaded saying it was a mistake that he didn't know she would keep the baby(lies) which accept thinking it was truly a mistake but i later found out it was a Big lie.we are not Married legally yet cos we both live in the Usa and the other lady live in another city..my main concern is my girls are 6 years now and i have been trying to fall pregnant but it would happen so i live everything in God hands in that situation ..now whenever i asked my husband for money he gives me excuse that he doesn't have the money now.our sex life has change i have to do al kinds of tricks before he can make love to me which doesnt happen before..so i later found out he has been going back to his long time girl that has a baby for him..the lady in question one time came to confront me on so many issues i later find out my man has been telling me lies.and his folks doesn't speak to me like before cos i heard she calls them here and there.my confusion now is what do i do, should i live him or still stick in the relationship.cos like the yoruba would say oja ti omo ba ti wo o ti di okota..everything has change a lot between us the love no longer sparkle anymore and i don't want to start having an affair while still with me..i still love him so much and am sacred of the future cos of my lovely girls i want them to feel the love of both parent ..pls anyone reading this i need your opinion
God bless u