I met dis guy in my bf's house, then he was introduced to me as my bf's friend, bt later that same day d guy asked for my contact bliving dere was no harm in doing dat bt d way d guy was starring at me got me uncomfortable n I told my bf abt it, then he said dat d guy is very gentle n has no wahala. Later on dat evening d guy pinged me n started saying stuffz like he likes d shape of my body, d size of my bo*bs n my hips, it was kinda embarrassing also irritating n I cald my bf bt he said he wud talk to me in da morning, d next day I showed him d chat n he was like, d guy is probably drunk. D guy kept disturbing me bt I stopped telling my bf. Then came a time wen I jxt cudn't ignore d guy, I started paying him some attention, we got talking n I discover that d guy is d "no wahala" type bt I still don't knw y he is acting otherwise to me. Last semester I asked my bf to come visit me in school bt he gave some excuses, I told d other guy abt it n he said he wudn't mind coming, I tot he was joking until I saw him d next day in my school, he even brought me stuffz. D guy spent a week in my school n honestly during dat week, we didn't s*x bt his kisses n touches were perfect, I told d guy we av to stop being friends cos d strong attraction to him scares me. We didn't communicate for more than two mnths, my mind was alwayz drifting to him. Then we collided at an eatery n we went back to our friendship, then we eventually had s*x, I cried dat day cos I was ashamed I enjoyed it. We had s*x twice after dat, my bf got to knw something was up n he asked me abt it, I told him I had sex with d other guy once, then he asked me two questions dat I cudn't answer, he asked if I enjoyed s*x with d other guy n if I luv d other guy. And now, the other guy said he wants something more than sex, he wants a relationship. Dis guy is everything I've alwayz wanted in a guy bt I don't knw ao my bf wud feel abt dis, I feel like I am jxt asked to stab him in d hrt!