Am a 25yrs student, Ve been in a relationship with a man (39) for over a year now. And I think the man is stingy. We planned getting married early next year. He has visited my parent like 4 time, and out of those 4 times he bought provisions for them twice. But for me he has never been so happy enough to give me just 500naira. Even if I come visit him, he has not for once give me my full transport fare when am going back. I wanted to be sure if he's stingy or not sometimes ago, so I asked him for money ( I naturally don't know how to ask a guy for money but I took d courage and ask him) and it took him like 3 weeks b4 he send me 4k then. My concern now is that is he stingy. Do not misquote me pls, its not all about the money but am just afraid for my future. What if he is stingy. Even when I have to travel to my hometown from my schl to meet him Whenever we have meeting with my church pastors, he would not even consider that I will go back and I need money for T fare. There was a time I have to go beg my grandma for T fare back to schl. (he's working and he is not broke and we are not having sex until our wedding night.) even as I type this am in his house about to leave for my schl and I don't know how to cope back in schl if he gives me the usual amount cos I spent my last pocket money to come here. Guys please advice me, what do u think I can do. Cos I seriously don't know.