Hello friends,i am 26yrs old,i started dating dis guy wen i was 18yrs old den i just gained admission in2 d uni,he was my 1st everitin nd i loved him wit my life,2yrs in2 d relationship,he called me 1day nd begged me 2 plz give him 2yrs 2 travel out nd make moni 2 cum marry me,after much talk,i agreed nd promised 2 wait 4 him,after waiting 4 2yrs,d year i was expecting him 2 cum home,he called me 1day nd told me he wanted 2 do sumtin[he neva mentioned wot]dat he wants me 2 b strong dat if he is sucessful dat we will neva want 4 anytin in life again,i tried 2 ask him wot it was,he promised 2 call me back d next day 2 explain everitin,nd dat was d last i heard of him,i was heart broken 4 years cos i didnt kn wot happened 2 him,i waited nd cried 4 2yrs plus,yet notin,so just last year june,i met anoda guy dat kissed me everiwhere d oda guy hurt me,he made me feel alive again nd i fell hard 4 him,but d truth is,i still sumtimes wonder wot happened 2 my 1st love,he asked me 2 marry him dis year june nd i accepted nd we planned 2 wed in december,but in august,i got home 4rm work 1day nd dere in my sitting rum was my 1st love nd my parents,imagine my shock,he later explained dat he got in2 trouble 4 me,cos he wanted 2 make me hapi,he wanted 2 make moni 2 make comfortable all my life,he is back wit lots of moni nd he wants d wedding plan 2 start,now how do i tell d oda guy dat has bin dere 4 me all dis while dat i cant marry him again,wit all d plans he has made,i dont kn wot 2 do,pls friends help me out,thank u