my 9ja pals - greetings! am 32 and have proposed to my girl that we have been together for 1 year and 3yrs away because i traveled overseas. but the problem is she just did something strange again which make me scared... i gave her money to give my cousin and she said the money is too much for my cousin that she needed more and she split the money and gave my cousin one part. she has done same thing before and i have told her that i don't like such behavior that is why am now scared to proceed for the introduction... in fact am contemplating about calling the relationship off. the problem is, if i called the relationship off how do i find someone that will really love me and not my money... because i met my fiancee when i was just managing in 9ja. i need your advice my 9ja pals.