hi pals, kindly advice me, my guy he's a person i love so much, we'v been courting 4 1/half yrs nw dat we'v agreed 2 get married nxt yr, even our introduction dis december. in dis 1/haf yrs of courtship it has nt been quite smooth, in d fight dat he does nt kno how 2 care, protect, assist for his partner, but wen i talk 2 him he wil do nd still go back 2 his vomit, so i admit he does nt kno wat been partners z all abt, cos he seemed to appear dat he loves me, recently an incident hapened 2 me; wen i was comin 4rm church, i met a guy inform of police dat deceiv me nd collected evrytin i hav nd even rape me nd beat me, cos of d threateni 4rm d guy 2 cal all d contac i hav on phon dat i had an accident, make me 2 try nd cal d numbs i hav offhand when he released me.d 1st persn i caled z my guy nd all he could say z 2 blame me nt even tryin 2 help, dat nite i manage 2go 2 hospital wit d help of my uncles nd sister truout my 5 days in hospital nd hom my guy did nt pay a visit wen he eventually called said he was busy, since den he nevr talk 2me nt 2 talk of sayin sorry 2me. wit dis atlast i make up my mind 2 end d relashonshp. am jst worried cos it rily broke my heart, cos d guy dat rape me disflowered, so i guess my guy z on his right but nt 2 dat extent,nd nw nt wit d one dat evry1 knows we ar gettin maried soon. wel i stil give God d glory, cos he knows d best, but i actually find t difficult 2 erase his love 4rm my mind, dnt kno wat 2 do, am lonely,cos am a persn dat does nt kip fwends.mayb i would hav talk 2 som1,nw as if i shld see sm1 dat could make me hapy, pls whats ur view on this? what can u tell me