I really appreciate all your comments to my confession below. Dspecialist and Bella, I beg you guys should not quarrel cos of me, its not worth it. I don't even think my people will give me out for marriage to him without seeing his family and also knowing the fact that his family disapproves of us together. I have given him to next year to speak with his family if he wants us together. If by this time next year and nothing year and no change, THE RELATIONSHIP WOULD BE OVER. I want to be in a family where I would be celebrated and not tolerated. He is someone who when put on a hot sit, would chicken out. Once again thank you so much and God bless you all.








Can you get married into a family that does not like you and the child that you have together with their son? A family that vows never to bless your marriage with their son?



Thank you peeps for your responses. some ppl asked why im hated, this is the reason. When i found i was pregnant, we informed his parents and i was told to do an abortion which i refused and i also think its because we are from different tribe. Due to the fact that i refused to abort the pregnancy, they asked there son to abandon me which he refused and because of that, they stopped contacting and associating with their only son. Last year he informed them that he wants to marry me and would need them to follow him to see my family when he is ready.His parents told him that they will not bless the marriage and wont accompany him to see my people. His parents has brainwashed his 4 sisters to hate me, my child and to never call their brother.



One reason y im scared of going on with the marriage plan is that he told me of how his mother made the life of one of his uncle's wife miserable and she left with children.His uncle was told not to marry the woman and he refused so they made her life miserable. They were from diff tribes as-well.



He does not want me to go, but im tired of waiting for things to change, its been 4 years now and still no change. im not happy at all, my relationship with my bf is hanging on a thread, we quarrel everytime and we dont use eyes to see each other. its the love is dead, i cant even remember the last time i had sex with him. No feeling at all.