Hello pals.i am female in my mid twenties.i hv been talkin to this guy.normal hellos and his.a relative he is close to n a reliable source says he has good intentions but since we have been talkin he never tells me his feelings as per wanting more than just friend.well thats not my proble.he is coming to see me soon but the time we've talked on phone we get many pauses and nothing will be said and after short greetings he says bye. He doesn't talk much. And i don't talk much too. How do i make him talk about himself?and what topic can i bring up when he visits?/make him talk more:? I really like him .the first time we saw was at a friends so this time will be the second time ill b seeing him after some years.ps help i am a novice.thanks